Does she want sex?

Question

I meet one married women, mum of one and splited , she often phoend me and we talk about sex long times . I am a shy person .last week i asked her for shag and she refused. Then i went to see her in her home. I tried to kiss her but she again refused.she was not angry when i touched her body . I do not know what she wants. She is OK on phone but not face to face. I want to know either she is agree for shag or just spending a time with me. Thanks

Answer 1

She just wants to flirt. And to lead you on. She is messing with your head. Ignore her.

Answer 2

All women will say no to a shag...its demeaning being used like a whore. She may be lonely and horny but that way of asking is too much in anyones face Now if you had an actual real interest in her as a partner...with romantic stuff happening, asking her for a date....that might encourage her somewhat.

She's looking for love/intimacy...and hope you will get past the fact that she is in hardcore moment right now. She's gone through a crisis, lonely and isnt like that in real life......so be kind and a gentleman. Shyness has nothing to do with your crude way of talking.....lack of respect is.

Answer 3

You should leave her alone & find someone else.

Tell her to be a true wife to her husband & sort her marriage out.

She will regret having an affair & she should think more about her family.

You can go & get a shag with someone else without ruining a family & you will be a lot happier.

Remember that if you break up a marriage you could cause a lot of suffering.

Not a very nice postion to be in.

Answer 4

oh you will definately get her into bed by asking for a shag!! not! where is the romance in that??
she obviously does not want to cheat on her husband but likes the idea of it that is why she is flirty on the phone but not when you are together.
I would say leave her alone she is just stringing you along and you should not be hanging around a married women anyway.
Find someone who is single and wants to be with you.

Answer 5

You've stepped in too soon! It's all good to do it on the phone but when you're in person it's a bit harder! She's lost her husband and maybe isn't too sure yet about jumping straight in! Give her time! She will come around! Just keep spending time with her and she will know you like her for who she is not just for her body! But if sex is all you want leave her alone! You don't deserve her!

Answer 6

she does not like kissing....it's way too personal, and she probably worries about disease.
she does like cuddling and touching, so that should be your approach.
stop asking for a shag....it's way too direct.
just keep going with the phone sex and try to visit her home sometimes. maybe show her your dingdong. keep trying.
let her know you have condoms.

Answer 7

She wants to just spend time with you. That is kind of obvious since she has already said no twice. I don't know when you met her, but maybe it is just too soon for her. Also she is split but still married. Maybe she doesn't want to do anything too physical until she is divorced.

Answer 8

Shag? Haha...

Are you Austin Powers by any chance?

Shagadelic baby, yeah!

Answer 9

woman is different from man..she has a kid then separated with the kid's father of course she has felt the pain of love life,,but then do you have such feelings with her,or just simply for sex?i dun think she just want sex with you but love..if you don't love her or not ready to love her,please stay away from her instead of hurting her again..

Answer 10

She CLEARLY, likes to mess with your MIND, - rather than anything ELSE you may have, to offer? Mind YOU, - that COULD be because she is SCARED, - you DID say, that she just SPLIT from her husband! Give her a few weeks, - but, - after THAT, - ignore her! If she wants you, - SHE will find YOU! Meantime, GET ON WITH THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

Answer 11

shes leading you on. and for another you do not ask a woman for a shag ask more delicately.