My first love. And I dont know how to tell him. I'm scared. Everytime we're together I just stare at him and all I can think about is how badly I want to just say it, but I cant. I want it to be at the right moment, but I dont know when that moment will be. It hurts so much, I dont know if he feels the same way. Even the littlest, sweet jesture he does will have me in tears. I've never felt this way before about anyone... Help!
2007-02-18 18:53:58 · 13 answers · asked by JellyBean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say it. how would he feel secure on how you feel for him if you won't tell him?
you know, i still remember when i told my ex a very simple line that i just felt at that exact moment i was with him... after that i saw the most beautiful smile i have ever seen in my entire life... his smile was as beautiful as seeing a rainbow on an afternoon-drizzling-sky... i just told him the words 'i love you' in my most sincere way...
you do the same thing, girl. just make him feel the sincerity when you say it. go! go! go! his your boyfriend, that's ok!
2007-02-18 19:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by the consequence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feeling this way because it is your first love,and don't cry so much most guys do not like cry baby's or needy girls. and do not tell him you love him that may drive him away. and sounds like you are both young. just don't mistake his jestures as love it may be just lust on his part boys really do think differaant than girls it is easyer for girls to fall in love than guys I could be wrong but I can almost surely say there will be other loves in your life even though it may not seem like it now and you will look back on this and say how quite.well good luck any way.
2007-02-19 03:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bianca H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait and let him say it first, you won't regret telling him "I love you", without knowing just how he feels! It might hurt you worse if you SAY it then still don't know how he feels!
I know it's so exciting being in love! Don't wait too long of course! But, do try to wait since you don't know for sure!
Wouldn't it be cool to say it at the same time?! lol!
2007-02-19 03:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by jamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you about my ex-girlfriend. We were together for about 3 months before I told her I loved her. One day she was very sick. I accompanied her to a hospital. A nurse was about to give her a shot and she started crying. I held her and said, "I love you, baby. You're gonna be alright."
Maybe you should wait until a very emotional moment when you feel that he is largely depending on you.
2007-02-19 03:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first "I love you" is actually something you can say at the end of a phone conversation. He may say it back automatically, and he may not, but when he hangs up, he'll have some time to realize if he loves you too.
2007-02-19 02:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about it so much, you'll only drive yourself crazy. if you force it or hesitate it will most likely come at an awkward moment. the best time will be when you least expect it, and you when that time comes you will hear the words come out of your lips without even realizing you said them until you hear them for yourself. just be patient and you'll be fine.
2007-02-19 03:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by th3_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush it the words will come out at the right time it is not thought or planned it just flows.lol
2007-02-19 02:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh! you're really are inlove.. i felt that once and im still feeling it now! haha.. its really a good feeling.. believe me,, its even good if your boyfriend loves you more.. just tell him that you love him, dont you ever waste time, coz you'll never know when you'll never gonna see him again and you have lost that chance of telling him how you really feel.. if you cant say it in words,, write to him.. its easy but romantic
2007-02-19 03:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both of you are into music then tell it to him through song. thats what im going to try to do for the girl i like. if that doesnt work just listen to your heart.<3
2007-02-19 02:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by somekid2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go walk right up to him, give him a warm look in the eye.. kiss him gently and say "i love you sweetheart"
if he doesnt smile or acknowledge you. or say it back then he obviously doesn't care and you saved yourself some time :)
2007-02-19 02:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋