for valentines day..i gave this girl a really nice hand made card..now what should i do? should i give her time to breath or should i keep persuing her..casue i dont know her very well
...also i thought trying hard is a turn off
2007-02-18 18:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah valentines day was awhile ago, you should definitely try to get up with her again, chances are she's thinking of you. You should persue her lightly and trying is good, but trying too hard and laying it on too thick is a turn off. Play it cool but seem interested in her and try to read her feelings from there.
2007-02-18 18:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Meesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave her the card. She apparently didn't react. You don't know each other well. Put yourself in her shoes. Would you have done anything differently if something like this were to happen to you from someone you hardly know?
If there is any attraction for you on her part, it's up to her to make the next move. If nothing comes of it, then she's probably not interested in responding to your card, hand-made or otherwise.
That's they way it goes sometimes.
You're right. Trying too hard is a turn off. Be cool and kind and nice and available, at least for a little while longer. Something might happen.
2007-02-19 02:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her breath...then slowly persue her again you don't want to scare her off
2007-02-19 02:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Adele.S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really dont know her, then probable she really doesn't know you,might be a big mistake or might be the best thing you ever did. i dont know. but w-ever it is GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-19 02:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to think
2007-02-19 02:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by mwaks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋