well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot.this has been happening since december. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me? i know i have to talk to her but i'm a little nervous. i wouldn't really know what to say.
2007-02-18 18:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out again... she likes u and this time, she'll say yes....
she said no for the first time so that u dont come to know what feelings she has for u...
2007-02-18 18:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by supriya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you. Not yet anyway. If she's shy around you get a clue and figure out it's cuz she turned you down. If on the other hand you really think she's trying to get your attention, it means she wants to like you. It means she wants you to be a man and be confident about the situation and not worry about it. Just act as if you've forgotten about her. Flirt with other girls, make her see you are totally cool with it and you are doing fine with other girls. If she has any interest in you, this will make her jealous and start talking to you again.
2007-02-18 18:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her friends told you no? Confront her and ask her why she feels the need to have her friends do her dirty work? Is she a coward, or just plain selfish?
You need to be forcefull either way. You just walk up to her and say "we're going out on friday night, think about what you want to do before then"
Then you pick her up on friday night and make sure she has the time of her life.
2007-02-18 18:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably doens't like you that way. she probably only liked you as a friend. which is why this is uber-weird. she wants to go back to being friends, but now the situation is awkward and she doesn't know how to handle it. wanna know the best way to figure it out? go talk to her! just ask if she wants to hang out like you used to, as friends. let go of the torch you hold for her and if she makes a move, then maybe you can pick it up again. if not, then i would suggest finding another love intereest and having a purely platonic relationship with her.
2007-02-18 18:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this girl then you should ask her in person if she really likes her... ask her if it was true about... saying no...and if you did ever have a chance..... according from what you said....she likes you!!..you just have to start talking to her make her feel comfortable around you, so she can say what ever she wants and not feel strange about saying it....if you did want to talk to her then a cute way to do that is send her flowers or right her a poem.... or something cute.....what girl doesn't like flowers or a box of chocolates????
2007-02-18 18:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by anonimis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the reason she look and glance away thingy it's just telling that she likes you but is shy to let you know her feelings for you.Im in this position myself whereby im playing hard to get cause i dun want the guy to know i have feelings for him.But maybe you can try to pluck up your courage,if not talk to her,sent her a letter letting out everyhting?
2007-02-18 18:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Angel_Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one...her "Friends" gave you information....and you should have been up front and asked her out and gotten a reply from her and her only.
Obviously she is thinking about you....checking you out....playing hard to get (maybe)....etc.
I think you should get over the nerves and ask her out again. Get the answer from her this time. IF she says no, then let it go...if she says yes, good luck to you both. ^.^
2007-02-18 18:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her ,open talk, and be frank if you are interested in her,in real sense ,not just for an outing.Be true to yourself are you trying to move with her in good intentions.then why hesitate.throw the ball IN her court by being bold and asking her yourself.i f still she refuse ,you may at least rest yourself in good peace.Amen!
2007-02-18 18:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by dpkdrj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and tell her that all you wanted to do was show her a good time for free with a good guy, and that if she wasn't up for that then she has issues.
2007-02-18 18:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Matt from Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. Pretend you have something else going on. See what happens!
2007-02-18 18:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋