My boyfriend has been ignoring me for the past week. I call him and he doesn't pick up, he doesnt respond to my messages. The few times that I do get a hold of him he tells me that hes just really busy and when I try to tell him that it makes me feel unimportant when he doesnt make an effort to talk to me he gets upset and last time he actually yelled at me and started cursing. I started crying to him on the phone the other night about how he was neglecting me and all he did was yell at me. I've also found out that hes been telling other girls girls the same things he tells me "youre beautiful, youre gorgeous, etc". He hasnt said I love you to me in a week and everytime we talk he sounds like hes being forced to talk to me. The other night he told me he would call me on Sat. night but he never did and I found out this morning that he went to some party. I dont know what to do, whenever i confront him about it he just yells. But he told me he loved me. Should I just break it off?
2007-02-18 18:30:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, it doesn't seem like the right place for you, although I don't know you....
The situation seems horrid, leave him
2007-02-18 18:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that this guy is controlling you. You shouldn't be too into him. Go enjoy with your buddies, give time and space for yourself and him. Try to leave him for a while to see how he will act. Maybe it's true that he's busy or having something that he doesn't want to tell you until he gets it done. You know guys always keep things in their mind. After one week, i guess, if that guy still ignores you, just kick him out of your head... He's not deserved your mind and time!
Hope this helps!
2007-02-19 02:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by harrisburg_night 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's being quite the... ahhem... anyways.
I say it depends on whether you think it's a phase or not. If he's usually a good guy but he's just stressed out or something it's not worth ending the whole relationship... but if he's an abusive (explicative deleted) then you should throw his (explicative delted) on the (explicative deleted)ing street.
2007-02-19 02:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Doug B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It sounds like he's not only blowing you off but making future plans with other people.
Game over. Move on.
2007-02-19 02:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off I can think of 8 guys right off the top of my head who wouldnt do that to you. Too bad you dont live here.
2007-02-19 02:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by DJ C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! when guys do this it's their way of trying to get you to dump them that way they don't feel as bad. by ignoring you he's asking to be dumped. He probably told you he loved you so that you would feel better but if he really meant it he wouldn't make you cry and beg to talk to him!
2007-02-19 02:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is cheating on you he is keeping things from you and you need to find out what is wrong and he told you he loves you so you will stop fighting with him plus it don't matter if you love him he haves to love you back if he don't love you then there is no relationship so you need to find out why is he keeping things from you
2007-02-19 02:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you should leave him!! He's abusing you emotionally and that's the worst thing you can do to sum1. You said he loves you? That's rubbish coz if he does, why is he doing all of this to you?! You should leave the bustard coz that's all he is!!!!!...........
2007-02-19 02:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he's treating you very good. Just because he says he loves you doesn't mean he can treat you however he wants.
2007-02-19 02:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by TeddyBear121 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah you should leave!!your wasting your time asking these questions.if you have to ask,and is not really feeling the luv,i think you should leave.but here is were i am worried:if you break up with him,will he PHYSICLY abuse you??i think you should answer that question...
2007-02-19 03:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Polka Dots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋