He says he doesnt love me.....?

Question

he said he doesnt really no if he loves me. i love him to death and i dont no wat to do.........HELP PLEASE!!!!!

Answer 1

give him space, give him time to miss u, dont call him let him call u. ignore his a**. if he leave u messages to return his call and he calls u before u have to call him, then maybe its some hope. some men take longer to fall in love than most women. he may need time. its a song out there, prince sings it to and in the song its says' i can't make you love me if you dont, i can't make your heart feel something it don't. listen to it- called i can't make u love me

Answer 2

I feel for ya. It sounds like she wants you to put more effort into her and your marriage. Be fun, sweet, loving and understanding. Try not to fight and to brush mean comments off your shoulder. She will fall in love with you again. It happened before! I had to do the same thing. I rubbed my husbands shoulders when he would least expect it. When he had a mean or smart a** comment I would ignore it and just hugged him tight. Let him know that it won't change the way I feel. It worked. He started being so much more happier and took me out for dates. He even brought me home flowers!!! Just because I would be more loving and lovable. You should definitely have a date night every week. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Think about this, If he were an emotional guy that told you you were pretty and how much he loved you all the time would you still like him so much? What he's doing is obviously working in his favour so why should he say it? Who cares if he says it. If you constantly ask him to it will sound needy and may make him less interested in you. If he's with you he probably does love you. Drop it.

Answer 4

Give him space, some guys just need space and need a break to find out if they really love you back.... Dont overreact and dont go chasing him and sending him texts and calling him every 2 seconds. Just give him a lil space and in a little bit he will be dying to be back with you :)

Answer 5

Give him sometime to figure it out it take guys longer to make a decision like that but it can be a good thing because then when he does say it it will mean that he really feels that way.

Answer 6

There is nothing you can do. For one guys hate needy girls and I am not trying to be mean I am letting you know change your mode. thats good for a start. and if things don't work out chalk it up as a learning experience and maybe he was just in it for the sex! there are people like that I mean guys and girls!! well any way good luck!

Answer 7

I'm sorry that your having to go through this, I went through it over 2 years ago and well when he told me that I figured I didn't want to be some where I wasn't wanted I packed it up and left, its something that you really need to think about but its not right for you to stay some where your not wanted you need to get on with your life.

Answer 8

If he says he doesn't "know" that is usually the nice way of saying he doesn't love you, but he is comfortable enough to stay with you to help pass the time until he finds someone better.

Answer 9

He probably loves you but thinks that he will me "less manly" if he says that he loves you.

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Answer 10

Give him the benefit of the chase. Just leave him alone for now, you have plenty of time....the rest of your life. This is the only way he will realize what you are to him. Ignorance in this case is bliss.