I have a girlfriend, I like her a lot a lot a lot.... and we're great together :-) but I'm rather skinny and I admit, I'm not the strongest guy on earth.... and whenever I watch TV or the discussion of a guy with great looks somehow arises, I hear girls talk about "how great his body is". When girls say something's sweet, it's not said with as much excitement and enthusiasm as when they say a guy has a great body. Do I need to build myself up in that aspect too? Just wanna make her more happy.....
2007-02-18 18:09:51 · 17 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks is just something that attracts us to the other sex. i think girls just like to check out guys with that kind of body but when it comes to having one of their own, i can assure you that they do not want that muscular guy. you should just be yourself beacause your girlfriend will love you as "you", not your body or your money but your inner self.......hope that make sense.
2007-02-18 18:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by SMILES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 06:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is anything like me she would prefer a sweet guy over one with a perfect body. I often make comments about good looking guys on TV and it used to bother my husband. Those types of guys are nice to look at, but that is it. I prefer my man to have flaws. Nobody really wants a man with a perfect body. Lets face it every person has an idea of what their flaws are, if you had a significant other that had no flaws, you would have the lowest self esteem ever.
2007-02-18 18:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls want the body and how good they look on the outside..some girls will care about what they have on the inside. It really depends on her. I go with the sweet and sensitive guy. It's great that you even will try to look good for her just to make her happy.
2007-02-18 18:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was a stuck figure when we got together.
Just like you guys will perv on a girl with a hot body and most of the time say shes hot it is the same for girls.
I couldn't care less about the way my husband looks as long as he treats me and my kids well, who cares.
I love him and I have had really good looking guys and they have been nothing but dogs. Sorry for the good looking ones who aren't like that.
But I would prefer sensitive sweet guy anyday
2007-02-18 18:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off... SHe should like you for you not what you look like. My boyfriend is the sweetest person I know and he is the skinnest person I know. hes 15 and he only weighs 120. So you kinda remind me of him in a way but anyway. I love my boyfriend for the person that he is. Most girls look for thier prince charming like in the fairytales. Most of the time hes he most caring person the gilr could ever find. Some girls dont like sweet guys but most do.
Think if it this way.... Would you want to be this big strong guy who is a total a$$ or be a skinny guy who is nice and caring to everyone?
2007-02-18 18:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls sometimes talk about a "great body" but that's mostly just talk. What girls really want is the emotional turn on which is usually confidence. Some girls like guys who are really strong/confident and know who they are BUT other girls prefer quiet, silent types. Usually opposites are attracted.
2007-02-18 18:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your gf likes you just the way you are, and i wouldn't worry too much about it. however, if you still want some tips, here you go.
girls don't care just about appearance. sure, you want to look presentable and have a good appearance, but you don't need "the perfect body." girls like guys with a nice, clean look. PERSONAL HYGIENE IS A MUST!!!!! shower, use deodorant, brush and floss. i don't think many girls worry about much more than the basic hygiene; a good personality is what really matters..
2007-02-18 18:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by cowgirl202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally love guys for being sweet. What can I say? We love compliments. Compliments boost our self-esteem, which no girl seems to have. Even if you aren't the greatest looking guy, If you are sweet to your GF, and compliment her a lot, she will want to be with you .You will make her feel good, you will make her happy. And that's exactly what you want.
Tell her she's beautiful. Compliment her whenever you can.
However, don't make it seem like your looking for somthing naughty.
I admire you for want your GF to be happy...I wish you the best luck!
2007-02-18 18:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it won't hurt working out and stuff, but girls who care about a guy's body over a guy's soul is shallow and not worth going out with. It doesn't mean your gf is, I mean she's the one going out with you right? And she may like other things about you. Be yourself and be confident. That always works. Don't let your body image bother you.
2007-02-18 18:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by melanie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋