This girl broke up with my son who is 23. She keeps emailing him and upsetting him by telling him who she is with etc. How can I help him? He does not want my advice and is always upset. Why doesn't she just leave him alone? There are plenty of lovely girls interested in him.
2007-02-18 18:08:53 · 18 answers · asked by Marie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks Lily! My son needs prayer now! I am worried about him. He is taking this too hard. She was cheating on him and broke up with him. Now that she has moved on to her next victim, she is tormenting my son by calling him and bragging about her new boyfriend. My son adored her and spent a lot of money and time on this girl. Three years! He was really in love with her and wanted to marry as soon as both finished college! She is very mean to him!
2007-02-18 19:17:51 · update #1
When your sons mail account is open, block the E-Mail add. of tht girl, and dang! he wont be able 2 receive any of tht idiots mails anymore!
PS: Do it descreetly!
2007-02-18 18:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Romps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth is we are in a sick society where there are numerous people with obsessions and all kinds of temptations to do evil. You didn't mention who broke up with who, but I will take it as she left him and is now tormenting him. I had to answer you because you are suffering. The best thing you can do for your son is to pray to Our Lord that he is protected form people who hurt him. The St. Michael prayer is so powerful and he will be defended from enemies if you pray that. You can e-mail me and I will send it to you if you like. I know your hands are tied, he is at an age where he does not want help. I will pray for you both tonight and just keep being there for your son because he will realize you are his greatest friend. Don't despair, you are a beautiful parent and things will get better.
2007-02-18 18:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as a female with a man who is a mama's boy I'd say leave him alone. Let him be a man and figure things out on his own your not always going to be there to help him there are ways he can get her to leave him alone by himself. like change his email address and phone number and he could possibly tell her to just simply leave him alone. There's no way that you know the whole story and maybe your son is the one who hurt her first and she feels she needs to get even. Things will eventually die down just let it go!
2007-02-18 18:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by MelC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do away with the myspace. 9 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds would not have myspaces. U could b a minimum of 14. Im 13 and that i think of myspaces at the instant are not solid! How do u comprehend that that woman isn't in easy terms some individual. on line human beings can pretend to b everybody. U incredibly have not got any clue who she is.
2016-09-29 07:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to change his email address. I think he can block her aswell from receiving any from her. As long as he doesn't reply or show any interest no matter how much he is hurting, she will eventually get the hint that he can't be bothered and will give up, but he just has to be strong. She is just looking for a reaction and wants to see him hurt. As long as he doesn't give into her she will get bored soon enough and will leave him alone.
2007-02-18 18:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kind of girl is that?! maybe the girl thinks your son still loves her.. ask your son.. tell him to confront the girl.. maybe a girl like her needs a second answer., it wouldnt be easy for your son to do it if he still loves her,, but i would say that girl is stupid! im an 18 yr old. and if i broke up personally to someone i love, i wouldnt bother him anymore. what's done is done. but if i know that the guy still loves me,, id probably do the same thing! love makes people crazy! tell your son to let the girl know he doesnt love her anymore, or if he still does let him tell the girl to clean up her act! she wont get him acting like a fool!
PS: your son still loves the girl., why would he be tormented if he didnt..
2007-02-18 18:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...she sounds odd. He needs to grow a set and stop dealing with her. He's 23! He should really be dealing with this on his own and stop this himself. I guess you could go behind his back and block her email address from his account. Maybe he won't notice that's she's blocked. You could also call her yourself since he can't seem to handle this himself. He really needs to stand up to this chick himself though. She's walking all over him and for some reason, he seems to like it. Try emailing her yourself and telling her off or calling her. Maybe she'll get scared & stop.
2007-02-18 18:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it be hard to jsut cange his messanger name and not add her.. or if he dont wanna do that.. maybe just put her on ignore.. Yahoo messanger had a great way under prefrances when you left click on the buddy... to allways show off line to that person.. then she may never think he is online... or just have him send her email directly to his spam folder.. all some ways to avoid her on line then he dont have to deal with the drama.. sounds like she is just trying to play head games to make him jelous... Good luck
2007-02-18 18:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by pdsaturn76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl doesn't want him to have anyone else. She is trying to make him unhappy. It could be that your son did something to the girl that made her break up with him. Or it could be that she is and evil wench who just wants the attention of your son just so she knows that she is doing better.
2007-02-18 18:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by lonmoe23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want your advise, there is probably nothing you can do. If he lives with you, don't tell him she called. You could also call the police and have her arrested for trespassing if she comes on your property. I think he really isn't over her yet because her comments are getting to him.
2007-02-18 18:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by pmz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋