Do you think my ex boyfriend still loves me if he's called me every two weeks for the past two years since we broke up. He says he misses me, goodnight etc. He broke up with me b/c I moved away for college and am seven years younger and he is trying to get his caree going..he told me that we are both living seperate lives but will live a beautiful life together someday. Should I beleive him? I feel like he wouldnt be calling and texting me so much if he really didn't love. What do you think? Would you call and text your ex every two weeks for two years if you didnt see hope for the future?
2007-02-18 17:53:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and no. How to really find out is his actions(talking about visiting you and does it, calls when he says he is going to call,etc.) and sometimes men are scandalous as far as if all his options with woman have failed(dealing with other females and there not thinking about him so he'll call you to hold on to something, like a test to see if your still feelin him, like he has you still).
2007-02-18 17:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, two years is an awfully long time, and if he still actually talks to you of his own will saying that he misses you, and he wants you back, then it just shows he's a real jewel. If you still find that you have something going for him, I say GO FOR IT! This type of guy is gradually becoming a minority in this world, most of which we have left are jerks who only think of getting you into bed, not a relationship.
Good luck!
2007-02-18 18:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by It's..... Annabelle! :o) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, he shouldn't lead you on. I mean, its like he's telling you, dont move on with your life, because when I have my career and my life set, we can then be together. I dont think that's right. You should just be friends with him make it clear, that you have to move on. Actually, how do you feel about this? Do you still love him? If you are and youre willing to wait all this time, which i personally think would be a waste, then do so. But if there is no feeling there then explain to him, that it can't be like this. Calls every two weeks...text...its just not enough. If I were you i'd move on. I would just let him go....:) PEACE.
2007-02-18 17:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... if he's saying that so it must be true. But u should should be cautious too, coz it maybe an attempt to get even with u or another motives. You must make your move carefully. If u accept him to be your bf again then do it from zero again. Dont ask and do too much until you are confident. If u say no, then explain to him why. it should be hard but say it anyway.
The choice is in your hands. Good luck for u.
2007-02-18 17:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Enigmatic A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who can say what another person feels in their heart. People sometimes don't even understand themselves far be it for readers to tell you if he loves you or not based on the limited information we have here. You be the judge, ask yourself do you by this or does he have another motive. If you believe that he does love you then ask yourself does it matter? Are you willing to backtrack for this man, are you williing to start a relationship with him again after he dumped you, or are you ready face the present and see what the future has in store for you.
2007-02-18 17:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me if a man didn't want to be with you he would call. This man loves you or is really obsessed with you. The question isn't do you think he loves you the question is do you trust this man enough to believe his word? If so follow your heart love is a beautiful thing. Good luck to you keep us posted.
2007-02-18 17:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Scared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence really doesn't make the heart grow .... May just want to keep in touch. Sounds like a great friendship could be maintained if each other can hold their jealousy at bay
2007-02-18 18:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Memeiko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he really does love you. 2 years is a really long time.
2007-02-18 17:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be loves you or that he loves your money?
And how come you have not moved on?
2007-02-18 18:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Deana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds freakin obsessed to me
2007-02-18 17:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by KO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋