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Hi, I have this big problem?! I totally am obsessed with a few guys and my mom has no idea. She thinks I believe boys still have cooties! I am 13, and I have no idea how to tell her any of this, and don't really want to, but I'm so tired of hiding it! I know she'll tell everyone in the family and her friends and everyone else and stuff like that! What should I do?

2007-02-18 16:57:26 · 7 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Yeah, by the way, I'm deathly afraid to talk to my mom about anything along these lines. Keep that in mind when you answer plz! lol

2007-02-18 17:04:47 · update #1

7 answers

Do you write in a diary?
If not, you should try that. It will at least take a tiny bit of pressure off you to write it all down.
Spell it all out in as much detail as you can.
Once you've written it all down, you have basically prepared yourself to talk with your best friend.
Ordinarily I'd tell you that your mom IS your best friend, but since you don't yet know that, a g/f will do.
You could ask your mom to have a sit down talk with you and make her understand that it's not for anyone else's ears.
Explain that you're really very conflicted over this and she'll do her very best to understand. She was your age not too very long ago so she's got the best kind of experience to share with you.
Trust her. Talking with Mom is also a way of improving the bond between you...and she will very much enjoy the closeness you're sharing with her.
Remember, she's been there and probably done that so share it with her. She'll probably recall her own teen years as being a lot like yours.
Good luck, hon.

2007-02-26 12:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0 0

Although you´re still young, you are old enough to ell your mom you are a teen and as a teen, you like guys and get obsessed with them.....
so just make a good coffee pot and ell her you would like to talk to her and tell her you are now a conscious young woman searching for what life realy is, she´ll undersand you. Believe me, she went under the same process.......all of us do.

2007-02-26 02:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by cutechick222200 1 · 0 0

Honey you are to young to be messing with guys. Give it another two to three years. At 13 it is fun to go to the movies with friends that include guys and girls, and hang out at the mall. But anymore than that...you are not ready for all of the emotional crap that comes with it.

2007-02-19 01:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by DragonGirl87 2 · 0 0

i think you should just be up front about it but u might bend the truth a little lol. just like say mom i think im startin to like a boy or somethin like dat n tell her u dont really kno wat to do. im sure she wont have a prb. wit dat unless shes like one of those one moms that dont like boys at all. n u can tell her not to tell the family until ur comftable wit lettin everyone kno u have a crush which shouldnt be a big deal cuz ur 13 which is wat middle skewl shes prb. waitin for you to tell her stuff like dat so she can feel more connected with her daughter

2007-02-26 22:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by yeekn0e 4 · 0 0

uh solution just tell her that you like guys now, and that you are a responsible lady and will not do the wrong thing, sit her down and talk to her

2007-02-19 01:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by sammi j 1 · 0 0

Talk to her. But if it bothers you so much if your family/friends/acquaintances find out that you like guys then maybe you're not ready.

2007-02-19 01:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

tell

2007-02-19 01:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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