Me and this girl know each other from our village back in our old country, and we use to go to the same grammer school but never talked. she was younger. neway, now were in highschool and we see each other like twice a day in school, i really like her and im attracted to her, when she sees me, im leaning against the wall waiting for the bell to ring( im standing next another girl, but theres no way were dating and there no way she should think im dating her). she passes by with her friend. i look at her, but she rarely ever looks at me, shes always talkin to her friend. last week her and her friend walked a lil past me and looked at me and you can tell that they were talking about me. now do i just go up to her and talk to her or just leave it alone. i kno you'll say just go up to her, but its just not that easy. what are some things i should look for to see if she likes me. should i do anything different to get her to notice me? does it matter that im a senior and shes a sophmore?
2007-02-18
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2007-02-18 17:00:31
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answered by SweetBrunette 5
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I know how you feel, i feel that way sometimes. But I'm a girl,...so heres some advice. If you really like her, go up and talk to her and get to know her better. Alot of girls play hard to get, and some act like they don't notice you. But just give it a shot. And for the senior sophmore thing, I wouldn't do that...but you like her so whatever do what you thinks best.
2007-02-18 17:02:31
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answered by Anonymous
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A. treats you differently than she treats others
B. looks at you often even if you are not speaking
C. seems at a loss for words or has momentarily lapses in confidence.
D. makes arbitrary references to events to which the two of you could attend
E. nicely making fun of you in particular
F. seems giddy around you
G. touches you for any reason; order of serious touching, from least to most: on the arm for emphasis, on the shoulder to brush something, on the leg for emphasis, both hands at once touching you anywhere, 'accidental' cleavage brush and/or glimpse
To get her to notice you, create situations where you will be in her presence. But don't be overly obvious about it. Like if she is in a particular club, join that club- Or if you know people in the crowd who she normally associates herself with, associate yourself with those people. That way while you are getting to know them they will eventually see to it that you meet her.
Overall you cant show that meeting this girl is your underlying motive. When you begin to make contact with her be calm about it.. be almost non-chalant about your true feelings about her.. and when you deal with her directly, keep it strictly business/organizationally related. That way she does not instinctively put up her defenses.
If you date a sopohmore it wouldn't matter.
2007-02-18 17:12:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Whos cares what age you are first of all.I think whenever she would look at you,smile and make a small wave.See what happens.Sit with her at lunch(Well first ask her if you can sit with her)than ask her how she is and all that type of stuff.It may seem hard but trust me I know you can do it.Don't hang out with her toooo much.She might get annoyed.Talk with her in the halls.YOU CAN DO IT.DON'T BE SHY.ONCE IN A LIFE TIME CHANCE HERE!
2007-02-18 17:04:26
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answered by Anonymous
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she's playing hard to get.
i know..girls are way too complicated for the universe to understand...but they do that because they want YOU to go after THEM.
they think it'll make you "want" them more, like right now for instance. you're wondering what's going on with her. :] that's just how we roll.
but back to your question, i do think she likes you. and i know, it's hard to just walk up and start talking to someone, if you aren't like BFF. but you don't have to make it big. just in class, maybe ask for a pen. or ask if she got what the teacher was talking about. then maybe stand next to her in the lunch line. i mean sheesh. at least TRY and make the effort :] she'll make one back. goodluck.
2007-02-18 17:02:07
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answered by Anonymous
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UH i just wanted to answer ur last question..
Heck NO it doesnt matter about the age i am in 6th grade and my Boyfriend is in 8th grade so i personally think age does not matter AT ALL
o and good luck with her :^)
2007-02-18 17:02:18
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answered by Taylor 2
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i am going to easily say this maximum adult men,maximum adult men which means basically about all adult men do not have any further some thing else on their suggestions yet ladies thats coming from a guy u say ladies flirt first yet ladies way of wondering is compared to adult men some ladies will be wondering ought to this be the single properly the adult men is wondering i ask your self how she is in mattress thats basically the reality and no im no longer gay im basically being authentic
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answered by ? 4
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somethings that you will notice when a girl likes you is...when they laugh at you and smile alot, if they tocuh your arm...play with their hair and wat not. you should definitly go and talk to her....wat if you dont and nothing happens you may regret it. when shes walking past wink at her or something or give her a wave. it should'nt matter that shes a sophmore and your a senior, if you like her and she likes you it wont matter
2007-02-18 17:00:51
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answered by little_miss_bizaree 1
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No of course...
Approach her and tell her you want to make friends. If she accepts your offer then spend time with her. Make her close to you. It’s your first step and the second; it depends on your situation...
Good luck...
2007-02-18 17:07:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask her if she wants to get a pizza?
2007-02-18 16:58:28
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answered by cares 2
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