I always want to be with my bf wherever he goes and now it seems like he doesn't want me around that much. so can someone please help me find a way to keep myself busy so that my bf doesn't get bored of me?
2007-02-18 16:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by Tita L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to do your own things without him. Stop depending on him so much because being dependent is a major turn off for guys. Do things that you enjoy doing with your friends or alone. Shopping, going to the gym, reading books, watching movies..there's plenty to do! Spend time with your family and friends and once he realizes that you are too busy for him and how happy you are without him he will want you...It's called scarcity...the less of you he sees...the more he hungers for it...LOL You know like men and their prey...Men are the predators and we are their prey.
2007-02-18 17:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college..don't be up his butt all the time. College will give you a chance to get ur life priorgatized. Now a days men also like a women who is gonna bring in some cash flow so get the upper hand on this one. He won't want to let you go if he knows your going to be sucessful and if he gets on ur nerves later u can cut him lose and u'll be fine:) Guys say they don't like games B/S if they can read u ur not mysterious anymore. They don't want to oh she is gonna call me at 10am. Make him chase you don't be at his becken call throw off the daily stuff every once and a while to mix it up.
2007-02-19 01:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by stormy2047 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just need space. The main thing is to not take it personal, and just understand that he is being honest. Sometimes men get stress around women who they care about because they are trying to do everything for them. So just do you and do things that you like. Remember and do you before you met him.
2007-02-19 01:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by kaligator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i know this sounds stupid but to keep urself pre-occupied DATE ANOTHER GUY! no i am totally kidding, but wat u should do is get together with ur friends (just girls) and watch scary movies it will keep ur mind off of him TRUST ME!
2007-02-19 00:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by wetsealsweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends don't want to hang out with you or what? just do what you do without him more often or find a 'hobby'
2007-02-19 00:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋