2007-02-18 16:20:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she thinks that mostly because of the way you approach her. so take her out on a date and dont push at all and dont go for the kiss on the first date. actions and body language speak volumes.
2007-02-18 16:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be true to yourself. Be for real about having a serious relationship. Try to be more romantic, than anything...treat her like a princess, let her know she is special, beautiful, remind her how much she means to you.
When you do make out, don't go all fast (u know what i mean). Try to be slow and romantic, don't feel on her, because that gives her the wrong impression. Take care out, and never, NEVER park somewhere.
Go meet her parents, her family. Let her, know that you care that much and spend time with her family.
Once in a while do something really cute like give her a rose, a teddy bear, some ballons for no reason.
You know like i said i don't think it'll be that hard, if you really do care for her. and don't just want to get on her pants.
Well i really hope my answer could help you in a way. And good luck. She is a lucky girl because most guys this days aren't respecting girls. Just don't bring up sex.---at all u know don't even tell her, "We'll do it when ur ready" because that means you are thinking about or want it....
Well good luck :)
2007-02-19 00:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by maria589486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that, and then prove her that every second that you have the opportunity.
She can tell that you are telling the truth by the way how you look at her, what you say, and how you act all the time.
Jusl let her to know you more if you have the chance, but if you don't get the chance she probably wants to find someone that gets in her pants. lol
Or just can be a possibility that she wants a relationship with someone else and that is the reason.
2007-02-19 00:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nora la exploradora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not trying to get in her pants,....or staring at her (or commenting a lot) on her attributes..." You look beautiful" can go so much further than," Damn your a.s.s. looks fine in those jeans"--although both are flattering, one compliment is more physical but less meaningful.(where a girl is concerned relationship wise). Then you can show her by always being respectful, but being for real. Being too gentleman like will give you the cheesy "too easy" stereotype-- and much like guys enjoy a challenge--so do girls. It's the counterpart to the chick that called you all the time, cried for God knows what reason, told everyone she liked you, left a million messages, etc.) Too Easy. Don't overcompensate, and just be yourself. It should fall in place fine.
2007-02-19 00:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and don't try to kiss her. Ask her questions about herself and listen. Call within two days. Ask her out again. Kiss her on the third date. Don't get into her pants. Treat her right.
If she is rejecting your advances bc she thinks you are a player, tell her that she has it all wrong, that guys that pressure girls for sex when it isn't the time are skanky losers and it won't be that way. If she rejects you after that, not much else you can do but ask other girls out and start building your rep as a gentleman.
2007-02-19 00:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy don't try and get in her pants instead be romantic and a gentleman. Take her to the movies and out to tea. tell her that you are really into her but maybe focus on her personality not her looks. If you need to, tell her that you are wanting a relationship and you really like her. Be yourself and she will be able to see that you are genuine.
2007-02-19 00:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kellie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, but state it in such a way that it shows your maturity and communication skills. Tell her that your looking for a relationship and not just another win on your "score card." Tell her that you're fond of her and respect her and you're willing to wait. You'll put her at ease and she'll admire your honesty and emotional maturity. If she's looking for a relationship, you've made the first big hurdle.
2007-02-19 00:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by microwaved-brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this same problem... talk to her. Tell her, you like her for her, and make sure you tell her you mean it. It may not work but seriously, it is worth a try. Try telling her, you know how guys are, but your different, you want an actual relationship, not one based on sex. Maybe, just maybe will she then understand.
2007-02-19 00:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by felipe l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying: "I dont want to get into your pants, but I want a relationship"
2007-02-19 00:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by TheBosnian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be romantic. Dont look at her boobs and butt when you are talking to her instead look into her eyes. Laugh gently when jokes are told or when something funny is said. Ask to do things together like erins or such. Dont ask her out right out get to know her first and be comfortable with each other then see if she shows any intrests. Just follow what your heart tells you.
2007-02-19 00:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by shortbus824 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋