i have been with this girl for a year now and she comes to me and tells me that she loves me but she likes another boy. i asked her if she liked him more than me and she said no. i asked her if she wants to be with him instead of me and she again said no. i asked if she wanted to break up and once again...no. she says she has tried to stop liking him but she cant and she feels guilty and she told him that she has a boyfriend and that they can only be friends. he also got her a valentines card that she just today told me about. what should i do?
2007-02-18 16:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by yurbuddy04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she hasn't cheated on me in any way. she just confessed to me what has been happening but they have been nothing more than friends.
2007-02-18 16:32:10 · update #1
Cry & cry & cry...
then find a better girl and intruduce her to that girl...Be really kind with your new girlfriend...that girl will be sorry...
Maybe she'll come & .......
2007-02-18 16:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Provirus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel and i been in the same situation but i would be the girl,its not easy,but i know where she is going and the only way u will have her if she cant take it anymor with the other guy,but if i was you i wouldnt wait after trying for 5 months,it will hurt but you would end up letting her go,im sorry,but you can find better,not saying she a bad person but cant make up her mind.
2007-02-18 16:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by tisha k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you take my advice, you won't get somebody SOOOOO honest like her....even in the strongest relationship, girls refuse to admit that they like someone else..
She is just great for you..cause she is even sharing the best kept secrets with you..and though attraction is a natural thing, she is guilty..wow! You are lucky to get her..believe me.
2007-02-18 16:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to seduce women. YOu should go out more. Develop into being a more interesting person and meeting more people. Dont limit you interactions. Its better explained below.
2007-02-18 16:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by nmwando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to say it, but that was really honest. if you love this girl and want to make it work then talk to her about how you feel with this situation. she has to choose you or him. it's not fair to you to go on like this. best of luck.
2007-02-18 16:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you have been with this girl for a year, and she been
cheating with someone else, you need a answer, you need to
leave her along, she playing you and that not good. time to cut
her loose.
2007-02-18 16:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her friend..
2007-02-18 16:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give up
2007-02-18 16:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by aosekw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋