Im 19 and I just want to be in love but all the men I attract are all losers. I don't want to date anyone from work. But there is this guy in my class thats kinda cute but I'm shy and he's quite. I get so nervous around cute boys my heart pounds and I feel like I cant breathe. How can I get a handsome guy's attention with out being so anxious?
2007-02-18 16:16:04 · 12 answers · asked by PlainJane 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may sound stupid but try practicing with a friend what you would say to the guy.. It works, trust me. Just be yourself with the guy, that seems to work with a lot of people. Try talking to him, sooner or later your anxiety will disappear.
2007-02-18 16:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by felipe l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey whats up im 19 turning 20 march 6 i feel ya you know that some people drift through life not finding love im not dr. phill but i now that it exist like when you wake up and there all you think about or when you now there fixing to call and your heart races and this person is just constantly on your mind i know cause i used to have it it felt great just make shure its not based around sex or anything that dosent feel right cause sex can feel like love but thats just lust you also want to feel safe and comfortable in this pesons arms most important trust you must be able to trust this person like your life is in there hands or else it not love god will deliver someone to you until then live life to the fullest were 19 remember we have a whole life to find commitment have fun 4 now e mail me @ xxxhardcore2007 password brittany ex girlfriends name ill talk more to you
2007-02-18 16:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by joel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what friends are for! Grab a friend to come up to him or do small talk with him....just try to find something neat about him and make a small friendly compliment to start conversation. Always smile, and just breathe.
2007-02-18 16:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't--make yourself a mystery -act uninterested, but appear interesting. Smile a lot w/o giggling. Find out if he's good at the subject, (hopefully he is smart) and ask him for help on something.
2007-02-18 16:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile at him and look him in the eye. If you can get your nerves down, chat him up.
Don't be desperate. Single life isn't so bad, and desperation does not equal attractive.
2007-02-18 16:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If you are trying to act a certain way to attract guys you aren't attracting the right ones. BE YOURSELF.
2007-02-18 16:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by MeanKitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breath and smile and say, Hi how are you ?
The world will not collapse honest .:) good luck .
2007-02-18 16:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about him
just go up and say hi, and dont think. clear you mind. imagine your having a conversation with a stranger.it works for me. hehe good luck
2007-02-18 16:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Applejack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chek his scent......chek his maturity.......c if he flirts with to many gurlsif so dump it.....if u really lik a boy then u mite dream bout him and if u do thats tru love
2007-02-18 16:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some drugs
2007-02-18 16:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋