I know my boyfriend hasnt done anything wrong but my head is seriously screwing with me...i keep thinking of scenarios that have happened or if he's been unfaithfulor is lying. i think he's not telling me things... but i know he's not this person who ive created in my head. i feel phsycotic... he loves me so much i know it and when i confront him about it we talk and work it out and i get reassured but when i get thinking i create this sh*t in my head and i hate myself for it bcuz i just want to be happy and stop thinking bad things...
2007-02-18 16:12:47 · 2 answers · asked by bec4887 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how can i convince myself to stop being a typical woman and analyse every little detail.... im only hurting myself and eventually im scared ill hurt the relationship too much
2007-02-18 16:15:07 · update #1
It's called the power of positive thinking. You have to practice it. Look, if something like that is going to happen, there's nothing you can do about it anyhow, so why waste your time worrying.
Really, you're stressing over nothing, you're wound up too tight, you have to learn to let go.
2007-02-18 17:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, ok we share overanalyzing, i do also. But the thing is when you overanalyze, you are seeing things in ways that other people don't even bother to look into. And yes I also think that cheati ng and such is a Terrible thing but if you're only focusing on all the negatives life have for you...you aren't going to be living! Focus on positives, it's hard to do once you're in one mindset but hey do you really want to waste your life thinking about negatives? I wouldn't want to. So find positives and focus on those :) Katie
2016-05-24 06:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋