I'm fourteen years old. I'm not fat at all, but I do have some regular chubbiness. My boyfriend on the other hand is very athletic & thin. He always places his hands just under my shirt on my stomach & I feel really insecure & like he's just patting his chubby girlfriend's fat. Any advice :/
2007-02-18 15:49:16 · 28 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes it! A lot of guys like a little chubbiness. It's a place to put his hand. Unless he says something, don't take it that way.
If you are insecure about it, exercise. It's good for you anyway and you can get control of your chubbiness before it turns into fatness.
2007-02-18 15:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are issues you're able to do to make your boobs perkier. I had the comparable issue with that, and now mine are the perkiest they have ever been. What you do, is you artwork out the muscular tissues that below your boobs, yet doing push ups, or different chest routines. Oh and my boobs are the comparable length as yours. As to your boyfriend... do in simple terms not undertaking approximately it if he says he loves you no remember what you appear to be. If it bothers you that lots approximately your tummy, then shop up some funds to get a tummy tuck. you would be proud which you lost all that weight! i understand i replaced into as quickly as I did! Chin up! there are solutions.
2016-12-17 13:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes to pat his puppy on the stomach and wants to experiment with you to see if you and the puppy have the same reaction. Ask him why he does this. Dont let him go to far into the relationship that way.
2007-02-18 15:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by flyecho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like legs, some like feet, it doesn't mean anything negative. I've been a little overweight and i've also been what is concidered thin. My husband pats my stomach no matter what size.
2007-02-18 16:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to be affectionate with you cause he loves you! he likes you the way you are..but if you are not happy with your tummy start taking brisk walks with your boyfriend and drink lots of water that will help to smoothe down ur tummy! also milk products will make you bloated so just go easy on them! i bet your a very pretty girl and i bet your tummy is just fine..i can't even begin to tell you how hard i know it is to be your age! but keep your head up and keep smiling and don't worry!
2007-02-18 15:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's not hinting that he wants a baby? Don't think that you need to change your body to fit what he thinks you should be. If you are happy in your skin then why does anyone else matter?
2007-02-18 15:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just likes rubbing your belly. Unless he is making any sort of rude comment, I wouldn't assume it is because he thinks you're fat.
2007-02-18 15:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Vegan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to be honest I do that to my wife on a constant basis, the reason why I do it is cause I know she is insecure about her tummy and all but I know with me touching it and kissing it it makes her feel good about herself and I think that's just the same thing with him he's just trying to make you feel good about yourself.
2007-02-18 15:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just out of curiousity `coz he doesn`t have fat...on his stomach....u don`t have to be worried so much right now....if he takes his hands down then it might be something different..;-)
2007-02-18 15:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by G C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just touching you in an appropriate place that is where you incubate life...this is very sensual and not a sign that you are fat in any way...it's a sign of vitality
2007-02-18 15:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋