I dont understand guys. If a girl gives a guy sex too soon, he stops the chase, and if she makes him wait too long he gets irritated and finds someone else. Tell me how to play the game please??
2007-02-18 15:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i want is some1 to love me. i could care less about appearance and physical stuff
2007-02-18 15:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Elliot M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you stay true to you. Giving sex too soon is never a good way to 'keep' a guy. Mystery, tease him, be sure he's interested in you not just sex.
Guys want it all. A "Betty Crocker" in the kitchen. A "lady of the night" in the bedroom, and June Cleaver for a mom. You can try to be all those things, or you can simply be you.
Be true to you and life is alot simpler.
2007-02-18 15:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by about2teach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By flirting you accomplish a lot...You're right, guys enjoy the chase but only go so far with that. The best advice you will ever get is ALWAYS leave them wanting more....and you will have no problems.
2007-02-18 15:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably the toughest question to answer.
Maybe if you don't use sex as a gage, and don't have it until YOU really want it, That may remove the stress you have over it. I don't think you ever owe it to him, it needs to be a mutual thing and hopfully that and other things keep him in the relationship.
Good luck
2007-02-18 15:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang Lady......a great many guys......I'm afraid to say...go with a Lady just to " get in her pants". After he has accomplished that....he moves on to next victim/ target. Make him wait .....he moves on to another victim/ target. The trick is.....and this is not easy...is to find that " special" someone that will love and cherish you .....wait and see..if the " guy" gets bored and leaves? then he isn't the one. Wait for the right one...in your Heart you and he will know..then go on from there...I wish it was easier.....good luck and be strong.
2007-02-18 15:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL we aint all that complex if he aint wait then he was only looking for one thing, if he willing to wait then he really feelin you. if you give sex to a guy too soon yeah he ganna think of you as just a................. well, if you make him wait then he good if he be feelin you, its not a question of when the right time is its a matter of when you (mentaly) ready for him to be with you
2007-02-18 15:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wreckless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them. Go with what YOU like, okay?
If it makes you feel any better, I don't understand girls. Hot, cold and scalding; it's a wonder we made it this far as a species, eh?
2007-02-18 15:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're talking about boys i guess. They'll grow up one day. I don't know though, some never do!
2007-02-18 15:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you for you and just for sex, then let him go.
2007-02-18 15:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some head. that way you can meet him halfway.
2007-02-18 15:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋