ok he used to be this HUGE cheater and he is talking to this gurl that keeps telling alla her friends that he is cheating on me and like he tells me he isn't and i believe that he really does love me but i don't know...he always deletes his text messages as soon as i come around and yeah...i don't know...i mean i just need to know what to do...His best friend has a sister the same age and when he stays with his best friend his best friend's sister always has that gurl that claims he is cheating on me stay too! PLEASE help me!
2007-02-18 15:39:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is cheating. You deserve better than that. When someone is a cheater it is very difficult for them to change. Good Luck
2007-02-18 15:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by 1dayatatime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break your heart, but I have a eye and nose for cheaters! Men and women today run so much game and it is hard to decipher what is love even when it feels like it! He has been giving you the Payless love and not the Foot Locker love. I would hope that he wasn't cheating, but there is some truth in every lie! I was a cheater once so the text messaging is a sure sign!
2007-02-18 15:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. The way he deletes his text messages when you come around sounds like he is still cheating. You should leave him and find someone who believes in being faithful to one woman. You are to good to be with him, you most definitely deserve better. Don't waste your time on him any longer.
2007-02-18 15:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by brendanorris2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow tough one. I have the same problem with my daughter's father.
The only way to find out the truth is to have EVERYONE mentioned in the same room and you do the talking. When people are put on the spot like that, their body language will give you the answer.
Good luck hun!
2007-02-18 15:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by tianicole671 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok come on.. what else do he need to do?? Have sex with the girl and have you walk in on it?? but you might not still beleive it.. unless you are 12 he is tooo old to be spending the night with friends.. he don't love you it's just a lie guys tell so that they can get you to have sex with them. Just leave him alone and get a new boyfriend.. Trust me Single Life is better.. No Worries!.!.
2007-02-18 15:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are as hard as it may be to accept that he is cheating. deleting his messages is a sure giveaway, as people who have nothing to hide hide nothing. if u are hearing stuff, chances are where there is smoke there is fire. what to do? it is hard to believe the bad when we love someone, but if u think he is cheating and your intuition tells u he is than he probably is, listen to your intuition it is always true. if i were u i would get as far away from this guy as u can. if he is cheating on u, u don't want him, believe me u don't, shows poor character, and lack of integrity.
2007-02-18 15:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he used to be a cheater, then he probably still is. Unfortunately most people just don't change, especially if they've done something they got away with.
2007-02-18 15:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! once a cheater always a cheater and from what u said u already know if he is why is he tring to hide things from u thats ur sign
2007-02-18 15:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by natasha k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ,Say Good bye and find some one more reliable .He sounds like to much trouble .
2007-02-18 15:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely cheating dump him
2007-02-18 15:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by chauntel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋