friend problem...................please read?

Question

My female friend told me how her bf isn't treating her right. He went out to help his baby momma and never got in contact with her for 2 days. (Mind you she text him and called and he did not reply, and he turned his phone off).Then when she called him up to confront him he didn't have a good excuse. He said that his battery died, and how his daughter occupied his time. To me that is balony. She understand that he is trying to help, especially his daughter (since they were looking for a place to live, since her mother moved) but why not call her every now and then, that is all she is asking. If you ask me I think he still f****** his baby moma. She told me how he acted as if everything was fine between them like he had amnesia, forgeting what day it was. She doesn't care for him as a bf anymore, but just want to return his things and get her things without seeing him. But tell me, us, what you think of this situation. what should be done?

She was so upset that she called his baby momma asking for him. All she wanted was to know where he was so she could feel better. She really wanted to curse her out, but didnt. But she is now getting over him, and just want to play mind games with him. Should she do that? I dont think he will care much. If he didn't care to even call. It dont seem like he wanted her that much only sex. But it is hard to say because they were always together.

Answer 1

it sounds like you could be a better bf for her

Answer 2

for two days he won't return her call... my gosh he must been banging his girl's momma. and now that she need to call him and tell him to pick up all that crap from her place and needed to do it by weekend and it will be outside. For what he did was wow, My wife called me every day, she even see how I was doing, or let me know that i need to take kids to dr appt. I call her back when she called... she and I know we work and We mostly see each other at home talk about how our day at works.

I never think about turn off my phone... unless my cell phone die... but I always check it and I have Phone Core for my Cell Phone to Recharge. smiling. It my job to make sure that phone still good every 24 hrs. I think he having sex with that woman... If he not happy with his GF then he need to go and tell her stright up... if things don't work out... I don't like to date any woman who have kids because knowin that baby's father still around and It been hard for me to deal with it every day. So, I find my own woman that Never married never Had kids and it the best thing for me. She and I been married for 9 years and 3 kids... so I know that we do have up and down and we do talk about it.

I think she need to stand up and end it... She can find a guy better than him.

Answer 3

I think he is cheating because he didn't contact her for two days and you would think he should call to let her know what he is doing etc. and that cell phone battery was dead hello that's why you have a charger to charge it throughout the day. But nothing is going to change for what I have to say it's up to her what she thinks. The most biggest thing when you go out with someone is TRUST in each other.

Answer 4

First, your friends bf, is probably really stressed out right now having to take care of another family and also dealing with a relationship on his own. so the best thing to do is to both take a break liek ur friend is doing. even if he isnt cheating or even if he is, he isnt giving time to ur friend the time that she needs to spend with him. and hes putting all his quality time with his daughter and the mom and that is wrong since he also has a gf. so the best thing to do rite now is to take a break since he has alot to take care of and till eveyrhitng is settled thats when he should go look for a relationship. good luck!

Answer 5

She could get her things as soon as possible. You don't ignore someone you love for 2 days while you are with another woman.

Answer 6

Pack his stuff up and tell him he can pick it up on certain day, and have a mutual friend there so there is no drama. He doesn't come then throw out. He doesn't love anyone but himself.

Answer 7

Yes. I think they should be because i think your right. He might of f***ed that girl again. So just to keep it safe before he does that to your friend that happens to be a girl. tell her to lay off him. and dont into him. becuz if she does it'll be harder to stop being with him. wellz GOOD LUCK = ) and maybe she could stay with you. just to be nice and all. besides you guys are friends = )

Answer 8

i think that like a meeting need to be adjurned.... haha... no really i thnk that she needs to either confront him in person... not by herself.... but she needs to either do that or get like someone else invilved..... you know.... like take into her hands...... i think that he did go back to the bbz mama.... "together for th e kids"... thats just how somethings work out...... bu ti think that she needs to get her stuff back any way she can (legally)..... if not...g et the po po involved... lol.....

so yeah.... oh btw..... "balony" is spelled bologna.... listen to the oscar myer song............. lol.

Answer 9

SHE SHOULD KICK HIS TRIFLIN *** 2 THA CURB.
ITS OBVIOUS HES CHEATIN.WELL IM GLAD UR FRIIEND HAS ENOUGH BRAINS AND WILL POWER 2 KNOW WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.AND AS 4 HER GETTIN HER STUFF SHE SHOULD HAVE A CLOSE FRIEND GO WIT HER IF SHE IS NOT COMFORTABLE GOIN ALONE.I WISH U AND UR FRIEND THE BEST.

Answer 10

Break it off but be nice.