Me and my girl hooked up along time ago,we love eachother alot u know we plan to get married in the future,she has alot of fantasy's but not that much anymore b cuz we have fullfilled all of them except one...I would like to hear your thoughts on this one,she wants to have a 3some with another girl.she's not bi or nothin cuz shes not goin down on another girl,but she says it would turn her on to watch me have sex with another girl,but really,i dont feel comfortable doin that b cuz i love her and not the other person,and to me that would feel like i cheated on her and she caught me since she would be watchin us.......Tell me how you would feel on that..................
2007-02-18 14:44:42 · 23 answers · asked by Tony E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude shes givin u a chance to do anothe chick go for it
2007-02-18 14:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by humus02047@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!! This type of thing is best left alone...it's ok to think about it and enjoy the rise you get from imagining what it would be like but in the "REAL WORLD" it will permanently RUIN your relationship! It never fails! If you are not comfortable about it then you should deffinately make it clear to her in no uncertain terms how you feel about it...after you do it there will be feelings of shame and jealousy on both sides from the three of you!!! Not only that but then there is the possibility that you might like the other girls performance better than you like your GF's!!! That would be a big UH OH for the both of you if you are truly in love! Don't spoil that fantasy...let it remain a fantasy, trust me it's much better that way.
2007-02-18 14:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about this?
Tell her how you feel about it, she'll probably understand. In fact, she might find it a good thing.
If she says something along the lines of "But I said it's OK, so it's not like cheating" ask her how she'd feel if you said you wanted to watch her have sex with another man.
Chances are she'll get it then.
Some fantasies are best staying just that.
2007-02-18 14:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by sirladyolplover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems a bit odd that she would be turned on to see you have sex with the other woman, but it is her fantasy nontheless. YOU have a choice in the matter because it is your body. So yes, if i were you, i would feel very uncomfortable to have sex with another woman while the woman i truely loved watched. Really think about it and tell your girlfriend how you feel .
good luck and i hope for the best !
2007-02-18 14:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by shakespearestalker87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u man. That is kinda crazy. I think that if your not comfortable with then u shouldn't do it. If she continues to pester u about it than u should reconsider the relationship because the two of u are on completly different levels. If it's just a fantasy and she doesn't really bring it up then don't worry about it. Just do what u believe in and don't feel obligated to please anyone at the expense of your beliefs.
2007-02-18 14:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs to put some thought to what she is asking for. She just might regret her request once the "deed" is done. I think if she is looking to satisfy her own curiousity and try something with the other girl herself as you watch, then you both win. Asking you to do something that is against your values for her own fulfillment isn't really what she's asking. I think SHE wants some of the other girl. All us ladies are bi-curious.
2007-02-18 14:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just tell her that to video tape your self and her doing it together. Its better then you doing it with another girl. And plus you might just fall in love with the other girl too. So. I think you should totally no do that one. Tell her I'm sorry but i love you and only you. I hope you know that. The only person i want to do it with is only you. No one Else.
2007-02-18 14:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right. It would be terrible to acctualy do another girl with your future wife watching. Is she crazy??? and i know that if you guys get married, when you're 50, she will be saying "WHY ON EARTH DID YOU DO THAT?????????" I know she might not be happy now, but it is so wrong!!!!!!!! And maybe, when you are having sex with a girl you don't no (who might get pregnant) your future wife will get ticked and realize that it's not right. DONT DO IT!!!!!!
2007-02-18 14:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by freedombah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one your girlfriend obviously wants to try something new, but if you don't want to do it then just nicely tell your girlfriend you love her too much and would never do anything crazier than BASICALLY sleeping with another woman than her.
2007-02-18 14:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOnestly that makes no sense to me... she caught you but she wants to be there when you do it the next time? ...hmmmmm. She might want to do that so that she feels like she can trust you more if you are comfortable having her there. But honestly thats a little odd to me.. good luck with that one.
2007-02-18 14:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its just one final test to ensure that you are devoted to her. The thing is, usually a girl would want to guys, but you wouldnt agree with that, so she suggests two girls because that is more tempting to a wandering dick
2007-02-18 14:50:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋