I DO NOT think that pre-marital sex is a good thing. You need to wait till your wedding night.... thats only my opinion......whats you opinion?
2007-02-18 14:42:17 · 17 answers · asked by Harts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree in principle, but I also live in the real world. People are bombarded with overly sexualized images that are all over the place. Combine that with raging hormones, a more relaxed attitude about sex, and the opportunity and you have a lot of what's going on--fornication abounding. So, stick with what works for you and everyone else will take care of themselves.
2007-02-18 15:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that pre-marital sex is not good. It is more than just a physical act - you give a part of yourself away. There is an emotional attachment that is created and when/if the relationship ends you have to live with that heart break. Also with all the diseases going around it wouldn't be safe. The only true "safe sex" is none. It is way to scary out there to take a chance on your life. Plus it is something beautiful when sex is inside marriage.
2007-02-18 14:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by hgpcookbook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the policies in accordance to the bible are that intercourse with all people different than your husband/spouse is Adultery. so as that incorporates pre marital intercourse. for my section i think of that is all clap capture. Marriage became into initially designed only approximately as a "sources transaction" (i'm speaking Western international) and has only been imbued with "romantic love" theory at present. i think of you are able to totally have self assurance that the guy you're with at any time is the "one" and not utilising a bite of paper and the ceremony. you've self assurance the time is right and that's for no person else to make certain yet you. there is no longer something incorrect with intercourse, that's a wholesome ingredient that each physique human beings (and particular even the only ones do). Having mentioned all that it is your determination to hold off or no longer, no person else. Use risk-free practices in case you do determine to have intercourse.
2016-11-23 17:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with that completely. When both people have been with each other for a long time, love each other and you completely trust the person not to use you for sex without a doubt. Basically as long as you know this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with (or at least a serious relationship),and the relationship is healthy.
2007-02-18 14:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hears my question for you how many women or even men hold out for there wedding night have sex then get a divorce. For men mostly it is considered a trophy to sleep with a virgin. If you love someone enough what's the hurt in sleeping with that person.
2007-02-18 14:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rambo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. It's not the same thing when you're married as to when you're just going out. It gives you the freedom of stepping off if something goes wrong (like if the girl gets pregnant) and it's a sign of irresponsability, too. Cause you can tell the couple isn't willing to committ to eachother. :] I'm glad you're one of the few people that think this way!
2007-02-18 14:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT OK ! hard yes but not ok , it can lead to horrible things like having a child and then u end up breaking up and then u hav to go to court and then the child wouldnt grow up with both of the parents in the picture like a normal family should hav.... get the picture . bad stuff and its happened to my friend. it ruined her plan for life and tht baby will never no its father plus if u wait its more special . good question i totally agree
2007-02-18 14:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree!
2007-02-18 14:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Carly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same. i mean how about if you have sex with one person get that person pregnant and then leave her ***. i mean that is so wrong. Then she'll be a single mother. unless if she gets abortion which i think is wrong but still i get y women do it. But i wouldn't have sex till I'm married and I'm proud that I'm going to do that. even if you get a divorce with someone. you'll still know that you did it for love not for pleasure. if its for pleasure and your deeply in love go express yourself. other wise BIG BIG BIG mistake...
2007-02-18 14:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i personally think you should wait till marriage. <3
2007-02-18 14:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋