i am soooooooooo positive he hates me and i think hes the COOLEST dude i no! HELP!
2007-02-18 14:37:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to give the reason why he hates you. THan try and fix that reason. Examples: If he thinks you are a biatch than try to be nicer. If he thinks ur ugly i dunno but try to look better. etc..
2007-02-18 14:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Oceans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Special Lady, no one can MAKE someone care, love them! Either they do or they do not!
It is an issue that NATURE controls!
Humans do not get to pick the person! There are over 2 billion males on earth, how should YOU chose? Everyday, males and females are crying about the negative situation they are in because they thought the person was the right one!
When Nature is ready, you will be doing what ever, have no time, in a hurry, mad, evil and not wanting to be bothered! That is when Nature will smack you across the face with HIM, and there will not be one thing that you can do about it!
There will be no escape for either of you!
That is the way NATURE plays it! All that humans do just fall by the way side, in tears, anger, hurt and pain!
2007-02-18 22:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should try to spend time talking to him whenever u can. That way u can let him see who u really r. If he still hates u then u shouldn't waste your time with him. I'm sure that he doesn't hate u but if he does then u should know the reason and after talking to him maybe u can straighten things out. U can't make him like u though, the best thing that u can do is be yourself, really, and tell him what u think and feel. It took me a few years to figure that out and now that I'm in college I'm on point.
Good Luck!
2007-02-18 22:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not like you, why bother? I would rather spend time on someone that I KNEW cared about me than try to 'turn' someone my way...that is UNLESS you don't have anything Better to do with your time.
If he doesn't like you, then he Cannot be the Coolest dude out there!
2007-02-18 22:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by JettaDriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, I feel you. I had this guy who I intellectually connected with back in October, we were both smart and he called me a babe, we imed, texted and almost hung out, then a few days later he was like "oh you're only like that because you wanted to get in my pants" and seriously insulting me. On Friday he gave me a gummi worm and said hi and was all friendly. Try figuring out what he likes or being less annoying or whatever it is that bothers him. Give it a fair shot, and if he's a jerk, ehh you deserve better and dating other guys will make him jealous.
2007-02-18 22:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it, but don't give up. Spend time with him and be yourself. Maybe you need to tell him how you feel. It could be just by knowing that your interested will change the way he views you.
If he ends up not being interested, don't waste too much time on him... you might be missing someone who thinks you are the coolest.
Good luck.
2007-02-18 22:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by David H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hates you, then why are you giving him the time of day?
just move on, he may seem like a cool guy, but if he is rude/mean to you then he is not worth it.
dont change urself just to look good in the eyes of this guy.
just be urself.
2007-02-18 22:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell him how you feel. The worst case scenario is that he will confirm what you are already thinking. The best case...well...you will just have to see when you ask him.
2007-02-18 22:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by ACCOUNT CLOSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to love yourself enough to not want attention from someone who doesn't like you. It's pretty simple, don't date anyone who isn't nice to you. Or in this case "pursue".
2007-02-18 22:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone who doesn't like you, like you. If he doesn't like you for who you are and the person you are you shouldn't settle for that, because he wont respect you and it will only end in tears, Find someone who likes you for you and appreciates the things you do.
2007-02-18 22:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋