I've only been going out with this guy for 5 days and we really didn't know each other much before. So is he suposed to be the one to try and kiss me or am I suposed to kiss him? Lol! Just want to know what ya think!
2007-02-18 14:31:52 · 14 answers · asked by argetdraco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait for him to make the first move unless he is really shy
2007-02-18 14:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, 5 days is way too soon. TRUST ME. Wait a little longer and he'll want it more (gotta keep em wanting more wink wink). That way when you do first kiss him it will be much more enjoyable. Wait until you have known eachother a while longer, but once you feel it's truly right, let it go. But be honest with yourself, do you honestly want to kiss him because you love him or just cuz you feel like getting some tongue from the first guy who will give you any?
Oh and about who should try to kiss who first, neither. When the right moment comes, you'll both feel it and it will be both of you.
2007-02-18 14:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by 17*mezzo*17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a traditional relationship the guys are usually the ones to amek the first kiss. you DO NOT have to follow these "rules" though. if you really want to go ahead and kiss him first. if you want to avoid the first kiss being akward just do it fast. just go up to him and give him a little peck. don't think about it because the more you do, the harder it will get and the more nervous you will get. so you just have to stay calm and do it. he won't get mad at you if you do it and he doesn't want to anyways. if he doens't want to kiss you quite yet he will just tell you to wait a little longer, then he will make the first move when he's ready. if he's a good boy friend that is. have a good day :)
2007-02-18 14:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've made out with a lot of girls and only one girl has kissed me. I will always remember her for it, and the confidence for her to do so, was very hot. Go for it, there is no perfect time, ask him for a kiss good night, that may be the easiest way to do it.
2007-02-18 14:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to avoid it being akward. It will always seem akward because it is your first kiss. Sonce you've never done it before you will always have doubts in your mind about if you did the right thing or if your screwed it up. It will be akward no matter what. Don't worry what your S.O. thinks because they will be worrying about if they did anything wrong too. It will all be fine. It will go by quick so make it last and have fun with it! Good luck sweetie!
Ambi
2007-02-18 14:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him do it first. :]
Don't worry. I was freaked out with the first kiss. But the more you do it, the less you think of it and it just happens. I thought I would have weird awkward kisses forever, but it's not that way anymore. So just hang on! :]
2007-02-18 14:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm depends on the situation i think like i dont know, get really drunk at a party and then let the alcohol do the kissing haha
2007-02-18 14:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by oreoshack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't kissed yet??wow....
well you can look at it in a few different ways...
1 way....if it's to akward to kiss maybe you shouldn't be together.
way 2.....just do it..like grab and kiss him
way 3....make it like flirty...like make jokes until he just does it out of cuteness...
good luck with that...
2007-02-18 14:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited for the guy to make the first move
it was cute
we kept laughing because we thought it was going to be awkward..but in the end, it wasn't.
but if you really like him, you could try going for the first move. maybe he'll like that you did it..
or you could wait and see if he has the guts to do it himself lol
2007-02-18 14:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- don'y stop in the middle and think about it. If you are going to fallow through with it and just kiss 'em!
2007-02-18 14:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋