I have this guy I have been seeing for about 6 months. I can do nothing but think of him and his hott body.. I want him all the time. But on the other hand he makes me feel like no one has ever. The way he touch's me and the way in looks at me.. But he is the only man I have ever had sex with. So is my emotions just taking over or is this something that will pass.
2007-02-18 14:31:10 · 16 answers · asked by LadyBug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can say
2007-02-18 14:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think of him and his hot body, the way he touches you and the way he looks at you.. I can say this is lust because there is a big difference between love and lust.
Lust is powerful and seductive, but it's inherently selfish and opposed to love. As we foster and feed lust in our lives we're dragged inexorably towards isolation, loneliness, insecurity and emptiness. What do we have left when orgasm becomes boring and unsatisfying, left alone to face the pain of guilt and loneliness?
Love with commitment is clearly very expensive and hard work. It requires honor, respect, forgiveness and sacrifice. However it's the road out of the loneliness, suspicion and despair that plagues our culture. If we substitute lust for love we end up with a meaningless sensation which eventually loses its novelty and can never satisfy beyond the physical.
God's intention for us is that we should be set free from the power and slavery of lust and become men and women of genuine love. Everyone falls short of a God who views sleeping around and entertaining lustful thoughts alike. However, he offers us all the forgiveness we need to bring us into a deep personal relationship with him. The love we experience in our relationship with God begins to be worked out in our relationships with each other. Our choice is either to respond to God's offer and pursue a life of love empowered by his love or to reject him and set off on our own.
Wish you all the best
2007-02-18 14:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your totally in love surrendering your body to your man and feel comfortable is a good feeling your full emotion is in full blast physically and mentally it will only pass if you lost that feeling called LOVE if you have sex with the man you love you will get the full bliss or full enjoyment or full happiness
but if you make love with the person you didnt love
you will get resentment,guilt and anger
because lust is a very shallow feeling
it is an empty feeling
so enjoy
2007-02-18 14:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's LOVE then you wouldn't have to ask some kind of question like this....And love doesn't really have to care about a man or woman's body...It's what's on the inside of the person and the way they make you feel on both inside or outside...IF I WERE YOU I WOULDN'T CALL IT LOVE..IT'S LUST
2007-02-18 14:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is very difficult thing to know! take a step back and think what do the two of you have in common? do you really trust him without any doubt? Is this the man that will make your life complete? Talk to someone about their thoughts of the relationship, preferably dad/mom.
2007-02-18 14:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first is always the worst. You haven't been with anyone else so how could you make a comparison. Its lust.
2007-02-18 14:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your unsure about this relationship or confused, sometimes you just have to follow your heart more than what other people tell you or what your mind tells you. Follow your heart and all obsticles that come through this relationship will seem easy as pie!
2007-02-18 14:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that is lust there is no way you can tell that you are in love you need to to date him for at least 1 year sorry to bust your bubble i hope i helped
2007-02-18 14:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart. Look deep down inside of you and ask yourself if he's really the guy for you. If he haunts your every thought and dream then go for it. Shoot for the stars!! =D
2007-02-18 14:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by lollypop3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating for a month or two without sex and you will probably know better.
2007-02-18 14:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes, the emotions will be higher than any wave in the ocean, reality is the ride down.......go with it!
2007-02-18 14:41:52 · answer #11 · answered by up2nogood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋