2007-02-18 14:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-18 14:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let the fact that you are self-concious about your outward appearance keep you from doing something you really want to do. Beauty comes from self confidence, pride, intelligence, and a good sense of humor. Just remember, you control your body and it is your mind that controls it. If the person you like does not respect your inner beauty, then that person is not someone you should be with in the first place. Sometimes when you think you are interested in someone, you begin to realize once you get to know them better that they really aren't as great as you thought. There is someone out there who adores your inner beauty and your wonderful attributes. Maybe it is this guy, so go for it and even if you are turned down, keep your head up and know that all you can ever do is try!
2007-02-18 22:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by jilando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I htink you should talk to him and suggest going out. I have always had a larger body type even when I am a a low weight for my body type I am still a 12 or 14. There was a time I let my body type hinder me getting out, meeting people and asking people out. Currently I am a size 18 and I ask people out, do the calling, etc and there have been some times which I have been rejected but I have been happy with the positive results.
2007-02-18 22:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by nightdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does fat have to do with it? Ask the guy out.
2007-02-18 22:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter?
If he's the kind of guy you want to be dating, he won't care. Carry yourself with confidence and your natural beauty will always shine through - bright enough to cast a shadow over your negative attributes. Having a good self image is more than half the battle: you teach people how to treat you by how you treat yourself. I know it seems like a bunch of crap, but I know from experience that it is very true.
2007-02-18 22:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just two words for you, QUEEN LATIFA. She is the best person to read about. She teaches you to be proud of yourself no matter what size you are. If you wrap the package pretty, it wont matter what is in it. I dont know I just felt it so I said it. Go for it dont hide away, you will loose out on the world around you.You are who you are cuz God made you that way. Cant go against him now can we?
2007-02-18 22:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM! Getting turned down might hurt, but wondering if you should have will last MUCH MUCH longer! Furthermore, who says your fat? YOU think you're fat! HE might think you're absolutely stunning! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Take the shot. See where it gets you. Good luck!
2007-02-18 22:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask him out, then tell him you just got done filming this movie that required you to gain weight in order to play the role of your character. Next tell him you can't wait to finally go out because all's you've been doing is take after take,finally tell him right after this your going to get back to your original weight,and Girlfriend start your diet!
2007-02-18 22:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by TAZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. I know im pretty fat too but i just live with it. If a guy thinks Im fat then he shouldnt talk to me. Lol
2007-02-18 22:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by FallOutBoyRocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fat??? If you have such little self-esteem that this is your mentality, maybe you should seek help of the professional persuasion !!
Why don't you ask him if he thinks you are fat and if he says no ask him out!!
2007-02-18 22:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ... don't be so hard on yourself. if your over weight and scared he might reject you then try getting to know him better. i think its better because then you get to know more things about him and find out if you really like him. when you find out that you do then try going on a diet. not a crash diet where you don't eat at all, like eat healthy things and eat healthier foods like veggies and fruits. exercise a little more and maybe that'll work. so when you start seeing results and know that you really like him then go ask him out. its ok for a girl to ask a boy out you know. so hopefully this works. Good Luck! = ) and NO crash dieting = )
2007-02-18 22:32:07 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋