I have a friend, we've been good friends for quite a while over the internet.. and he dates this one chick that I really like.. we internet dated for like 1 week.. and then she started going out with my friend Adrian.. now I don't know what exactly happened, if he told her to break up with me or what or if she just liked him better.
But now I speak on the phone with her and we seem to start liking eachother again.. even tho she's dating my good friend. Like at the end of a call she tells me she loves me.. and when I say I sound like ****, she says no you don't.. little things like that..
What should I do? Should I ask her out or what? I mean, if my 'good friend' stole her from me when we first dated, why cant I steal her from him?
2007-02-18 14:22:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seems kind of sneaky and underhanded, but hey.. if he stole her from you first.. go for it, dude...
But heed this Fair Warning: she is quite likely playing the two of you in some sort of ego tripping game of her own creation. Sounds like waaaay more trouble than it's worth, especially if this guy really is your friend.
Then again, if you only know BOTH of them over the internet, how can you be sure that they're not one and the same, and s/he is just messing with you for kicks? (ok so I'm a little paranoid of internet "relationships".)
2007-02-18 14:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chrome Toaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U gotta realize my man, people don't do things that they don't want to do.....Ever. No one can make any person do anything. Let's say for arguments sake that your "good friend" did bad mouth u to the girl. She still made the choice to believe him and to leave u. It's not his fault. If she left u for him than obviously she doesn't have the type of connection with u that u want in a gf even if she does "love" u. Love only lasts so long then it disappears and returns later. U need that committment to keep u together during the times when it's gone. Don't waste your time with this one unless you're the type of guy who would just be with her to get laid. In that case go ahead but u don't want to get waste anymore time than u have to my man.
2007-02-18 22:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dude, don't do it. Be loyal to your friend, be a friend. No woman is worth losing a good buddy, and if she would dump him to be with you, she ain't all that. Stay away from her. Don't talk on the phone, over the Internet, anywhere. There's millions of women out there, but only a few good friends. If she really liked you, she would never had started seeing him. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!
2007-02-18 22:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stole her first, then steal her back. But, the way I see it is, how much into you is she if she was manipulated by the other guy.
It might work at first, but I don't kwno how things will work out?
And as for internet dating? That's not even real, nor does it work.
2007-02-18 22:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Stash O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a fool. love is really blind as you can see your situation is really messed up. better leave her.. there are still other women who are capable of loving cus if she really do love you! she wont go out with your good friend.. that girl is a player and she's selfish. she wants controlling guys on his palm. dont ruin your friendship towards your good friend just because of a girl. as ive said there are other girls who also wanted to be love open your eyes and that girl is maybe just around you!
2007-02-18 22:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by leoNpari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. dont internet date people
2. why the hell do yo uhave to ask on yahoo answers whther you should ask a girl out.
3.your either too imachure sp? to have a girl friend or you dont like her
4. you dont "take" a girl
2007-02-18 22:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by yo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah just because he was mean and stole her from you doesnt mean you should do it back. Just try your best to find another girl.
2007-02-18 22:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by FallOutBoyRocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well say ask her out unless this freind ship is more inportant other wise shoot for it it sound like she might really like you still
2007-02-18 22:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do whatever makes you happy bro
2007-02-18 22:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is a hoe ,freak her keep ur friend he can't get mad he took her from you first,(bros b 4 hoes)
2007-02-18 22:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋