at a party mainly or really anywhere. Ladies what would be the ideal thing a man would say to you when he came up?
2007-02-18 14:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act like you're interested in just talking to her, not like you're looking to get in her pants from one look at her. Girls want to be noticed for other things, and dont want to be treated like they're trashy or easy. Dont use pickup lines you got off google, dont even try to be romantic or flirty in the first place. Just be interested in her personality and get HER to want to flirt with YOU first by being an interesting person yourself.
2007-02-18 14:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by 17*mezzo*17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just watch the girl a little at the party or where ever, and see the things that she seems to be interested in. If she's listening to music or dancing, start a conversation about the music. Pick up lines do not work, no matter how smoothe they may seem. Just be real, and try and connect with her on a level she can relate to.
2007-02-18 14:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A compliment about my style of clothing
I like to wear "screend tees" and pull off the Emo (i'm not a cutter..pleas save the drama) look when i'm out.
So, it would be awsome for a guy to come up to me and say something along the lines oh "Wow, I didn't think there were any David Bowie fans..(as I have a bowie shirt I wear out often...) Whats your faveorie album..?"
I personally don't want a cheesy pickup line, or "Wow, you're so pretty, let me buy you a drink"
2007-02-18 14:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you always have to introduce yourself. Using lines like, I seen you when I came in and couldn't help but notice how beautiful your eyes are, or, you have a glow about you that I just couldn't resist......you know, corny stuff but still works better than the "hey baby" lines.
2007-02-18 14:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like a guy to come up and be his self and say hi or say i look really beautiful tonight you need to say something sweet and kind oh by the way dont try to use some chezy pick up line because all you will get is slapped
hope i helped
2007-02-18 14:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when my boyfriend starts a conversation he is just like how was your day and just small talk just act like he is you best friend and it just goes from there
2016-05-24 04:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its at a party they'd probably say "hey! whats up? what do you think of this party?"
or something like that..just as a conversation starter
and then move from topic to topic like a normal conversation.
2007-02-18 14:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by just wondering.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't come off to obviouse.....
dont think that you HAVE to empress her!!!
come off with a nice hi... watz up//// you know to just start it if she doesnt answer but seems interested just go along with the conversation "okay thats cool... me oh thanks for asking (with a cool tone//// be funny ... let loose)"
she will probably laugh a little if she thinks your funny...
then just go with it!!!
(It would work for me)
(just to let you know this is coming from a girl with bad boy conversation experience... from the boy)
~~ Tommy Thomas
2007-02-18 14:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy Thomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be flirty or compliment it shows a gfirl ur interested. Be original and don't be an average guy saying normal cliche things. Its old and boring and not very interesting.
2007-02-18 14:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by coatedwithroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use your mind and think of somethings to say
2007-02-18 14:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋