How do you deal with it?
2007-02-18 14:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by mochalatteyy33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You move on. Believe me, you are just beating a dead horse on this one. There are plenty of fish in the sea and the more time you waste mooning over someone who is clearly not at all into you, the more time you waste finding someone who is. Don't give in to the temptations to see this person, call, write or even think about him or her. It will take some time, but eventually you will get over it.
2007-02-18 14:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your options now are to leave the guy or wait for him to leave you. (even if he doesn't physically .... he will emotionaly)
People are going to be rude about this and make you feel like your feelings are unimportant. Ignore them.
Others will tell you that time heals all wounds. They are wrong.
There is only one healer and he wants to help you. He sees ever tear that falls and hears you when you cry. His name is Jesus, call to him.Ask the lord to heal you, and begin to recover.
The next thing you do is make a decesion that you deserve better and that you will move on even though you don't know how.
Picking yourself off the floor is hard to do alone. Keep family and friends close. Finding a hobbie is a good way to keep your mind off of it a while.
What you will realize is that when God picks up those who are broken he doesn't just restore them but lifts them higher than they were before.
2007-02-18 22:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Malie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're young. Only younger people (or really immature adults) think that the world is over and there will never be anyone again. Deal with it and move on. You'll find someone who will make you happy one day. Don;t waste your time on dead ends.
2007-02-18 22:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Naru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try being friends with this "Obsessed Person" you like. Maybe They'll become obsessed with you eventually.
2007-02-18 22:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi//Janie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really mean "obsessed" then get over them quickly. there is nothing that will weaken you more than being in love with someone who's in love with someone else.
2007-02-18 22:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by leelee37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, find someone else that your intrested in and let them know this, that way the two of you can talk. It'll help you so much to find someone else.
2007-02-18 22:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do everything you can to make him/her fall for you.
once you're tired of doin all these things , i'm sure you'll hate the person so much that you wanted him/her to be out of your life.
2007-02-18 22:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♫♪♥♥♪♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move one
2007-02-18 22:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut them out of your life. Find people and a life ...
2007-02-18 22:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...depends on if its your bf or if you love him and he doesn't know you....if hes your bf..you need to talk to him and tell him that you feel like this....if hes not than you need to either get over it or tell you that you have feelings for him...
good luck
2007-02-18 22:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋