How do I get my bf to be a bit more aggressive and vocal in bed?

Question

My bf has lots of experience, and he knows what he's doing. However, I wish he would be more vocal and play a more dominant role. I have told him to tell me what to do and he just replies, what do you want, etc.

Answer 1

This actually brings up a whole lot of other issues, like maybe he's actually a submissive in bed. But openly talking, and explaining what you actually want out of the whole ordeal is usually best. Changing someone from a submissive to a dominant is NOT likely to happen though. Good luck.

Answer 2

Put on some beats so it will cover up his moaning and grunting. Once he is used to it turn the music off half way through, your neighbours will be able to hear your pleasure palace being crowned king fu*ck. And they will think your bf is the biggest man this side of the west

Answer 3

You should try to get him involved by taking charge. I would rather have my gf know what she wants and work to get it than just wait for me to give it to her and than complain about it afterwards. Most people feel the same way. U don't necessarily have to sit down and have long talk with him but u should definitly let him know what u want, even during the act.

Answer 4

Watch a good porn movie and tell him to act out the part of the male lead and you be the gal - just make sure it is a real vocal one........

Answer 5

That's easy. You do it first. Something about practising what you preach really encourages that type of behavior behind closed doors. You would probably find him alot more receptive to the idea if you did it first to get him comfortable with the idea

Answer 6

Lead by example.

Answer 7

take turns being vocal...i kinda like it when my gf takes charge sometimes.

Answer 8

u must active first by talking some dirty story etc.

Answer 9

you can rent a movie to see if that works

Answer 10

Wow why would you ask strangers to answer that? Oh well thanks for the points!