Here is the story. This guy had sex with me a month ago. After that night, he ignored me completely. I tried to contact him a few times, but he never returned my calls. Today out of the blue after about month and a half he called me. I didnt answer the phone. Should i ignore him. Also, whe is acting like this. Why are guys sooo weird??
2007-02-18 13:55:27 · 36 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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well... he probably thinks that u r the kinda girl taht would not mind being a one night stand... lotz a guys r like thta.... the sleep with u and then ignore u until they wanna have sex.........its called a booty call
i reccommend u don't answer his calls and ignore him.... or else he will think that u easy and repeat the process........
2007-02-18 13:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he hooked up with you a month ago, the guy was either on the skids from a previous relationship or out for a one-night stand. He got what he wanted then in a little action with you. Since then, he likely found another girl who has recently dumped him. Therefore, he comes back to you in hopes that you will again, errrrr, "provide" for him.
Don't just be a port in the storm, girl ... I'm sure you can do better. Ignore the guy's calls - he strikes me as a major loser.
2007-02-18 14:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue why SOME guys are weird...But your doing the right thing..keep ignoring him! Probably the only reason why he's calling you back is to have what he had with u a month ago...That's how some BOYS are. They buy something they know they don't really need...so they have fun with it for a while then later they leave it on the ground not even bothering to play with it again. Later once they notice it's on the ground and they totally forgot about it they then want to play with it again :~>
2007-02-18 14:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him he is only after more sex. You are letting yourself in for a lot of trouble. First of all allowing yourself sex with a guy you hardly know is saying well I am a good time girl come and get it. Surely you think enough of yourself to try to keep yourself for someone who really cares about you. Sex should be something special between two lovers not a casual encounter which is a freebie for a prostitute. Most guys think of two things their stomach and what hangs below it. As they get older they then search for someone to be their one and only and not someone who has been around the block hundreds of times. Have some pride in yourself as you are worth it.
2007-02-18 14:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by genie81au 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than that. Even if it is just sex you want from someone, there should still be a mutual respect. This guy completely ignored you until he could not find another willing partner. Now he is back. Lose the loser!
2007-02-18 13:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoogirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For godness sake learn from your mistake and don't contact him he is a looser. Further, get to know the people you are sharing your bed with cause you may get treated like this again, or more than you bargined for. Sorry this happened but chin up and keep this situation in the back of your head for reasons why to pick better next time.....
2007-02-18 14:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by kelstar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could call him back and say yes this # showed up on my caller id?
and then he will say who he is, pretend you dont remember.
He will remind you, ask him what he wants.
betting he wants to 'hook up' and tell him something to make him feel like an idiot and make you look good :P
edit: or even better say sure no problem, tell him you moved and what house to go to... and send him to some strangers house that is WAY out of his way. Then when he calls back either dont answer or just answer and laugh at him like the dumbass he is.
and stop sleeping with guys you just met.
2007-02-20 06:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by ~Browneyes~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not weird.........He is WICKED!!! Run his *** and NEVER talk to him again. He doesn't even care about you. He has decided to contact you out of the blue because he's horny again. There are alot of guys out there who are like him. I can say so because I have been there. Learn from this lesson and start loving and respecting yourself. You want someone who cares about the WHOLE you.........not just for sex. Kick his *** to the curb!!!
2007-02-18 14:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hold on .... the answer is in your question ... he had sex with u then all of a sudden doesn't know u ... now a month later he knows u yeah cuz he needs some and knows he can get it from u ....... u need 2 play his game and kick his butt to the kirb ... u are better than that ...do not give in cuz he'll think man I can do this again to her .... good luck
2007-02-18 14:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by tweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say forget him, he got what he wanted that night. and now all of the sudden hes calling you again. You are a human being with feelilngs, and you are not his toy, where he can put it away and take it out when he wants to play. find someone that will respect you. good luck. and tell him good bye and good riddens.
2007-02-18 13:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋