he is really cute and i need something to start a coversation. plus i can tell when he talks about it he really is concerned. the reason im asking is because he is also my bff's ex.
2007-02-18 13:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if so, why or why not?
2007-02-18 13:52:27 · update #1
i'm not the type of person to lie about my concerns to get a guy. i'm just asking so if any guys know why i should't tell me
2007-02-18 13:59:46 · update #2
I think that would be a very good way to start off.
2007-02-18 13:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to talk to him on a lighter note, this will prevent issues with his mom is something is really bad. Ask your bff or w/e that is about how she feels about you dating or seeing this guy. If she is okay with it proceed if not then weigh out the situation and see if he's worth your friend getting mad at you.
2007-02-18 14:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to show genuine concern. If your are concerned because you're crushing, forget it. Your disingenous intent will show through.
But, on the othe hand , let him know you're crushing on him. Let him use you, then you'll get wiser and learn not to crush, but seek good relationships.
2007-02-18 13:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I've never heard someone ask whether a specific conversation starter is OK or not. I'm sure that is a topic that is on his mind quite a bit.
2007-02-18 13:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but if u really wanna start a conversstion be friends with him
and maybe play hard 2 get u know
2007-02-18 13:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it shows you are kind and nurturing, and that you pay attention to what the important issues in his life are, and that you will be commited to his family
2007-02-18 13:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by hell hath no fury 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is a good way to break the ice.
2007-02-18 13:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ask him. Life is short and you don't want any "what if's"
2007-02-18 13:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by make?love*not$war! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he'll think u care and that will make u 2 closer
2007-02-18 13:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure but dont try to make any moves on him... just be a good friend until his mom is better...
good luck.
2007-02-18 13:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋