He tells me he loves me but I just dont feel it from him, you know when you look into someones eyes and you can just feel that they love you by the way they look at you I dont get that from him. Also we only see eachother once a week and sometimes not even that, youd think he call me, but when he does we talk less than 5 minutes because he has a paper or wants to hang out with his friends, and tells me if he remebers he'll call me back later. I just dont know if he doesnt love me why is he with me? But if he does why does he treat me this way?
2007-02-18 13:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Butterfly Princess16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be the type that doesn't show the feelings but expresses them. Have a long talk with him about how u feel and see what he says. Thats really what u should do in the relationship b/c thats the #1 thing about a relationship is COMMUNICATING, LOYALTY, HONESTY, AND TRUST. Also, tell him that as well.
2007-02-18 13:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by HatersEnvyMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnot love you and the only reason he is with you is that he wants to have sex he wants to have someone so he don't need to beg other women that is the reason he keep telling you i love u
and if you don't see love and you don't have any feeling for him get out of the relationship before you end up having kids and stucking there. if he really loves you he would have calling u and seeing you all at least once a day and taking you out.
good luck to u
2007-02-18 21:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't even friendship much less love. R
Remember love is a strong word.
Save it for someone who truely deserves it.
" Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. " - 1 Cor 13:4-8
"....God is love" - John 4:8
2007-02-18 21:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Malie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honey, this is gonna be hard to hear, but bear with me....hes a flake.plain and simple.I think that the most important question is the one you havent asked.....why do you LET him treat you like this?you are a godess and i dont even know you..you gotta know that you can and probly should do better..give him,and yourself some time to figure each other out,but dont hesitate to not let this guy dictate how you willspend even a little piece of your life.
2007-02-18 22:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by pepperhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetheart let me tell u, boyz and galz are diff. when u want to be close to them, they will run away, when u want to stay away, they will need u the most!!
it seems u are new to this love world..but theres an effective way of finding out if he reli loves u!! if he calls u when hez in happy mood and free, it means he cares for u!! it may take sumtym to judge but dats true..and am sure u are being loved by him!!
all the best!
2007-02-18 21:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you two need to talk...find out if he is looking for a relationship or just a booty call. If he wants a relationship, he better start putting more effort into it.
2007-02-18 21:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by deda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with him about it. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel. It looks like you already know the answer
2007-02-18 21:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by mora fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel because he is treating you is wrong !
2007-02-18 21:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has someone. Trust your instincts.
2007-02-18 21:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk!
2007-02-18 21:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋