but he still wants me to talk to me, know he wants me to tutor him. I Do Not like him at all, in fact he cryps me out. The worst part is that he told me from the begining he had been following me around (College) How can I get rid of him for good. Because he sort kept his distance for some time, but now he' Back. Help!
2007-02-18 13:38:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Find a guy friend to hang out with. Or don't give him any bait. He'll soon get the idea.
2007-02-18 13:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off take his picture. second write down as much detail as you can about him and give this to a person you trust to keep .
next ask some male friends to come with you and take some recorder with you a small tape recorder would work . have your friends stand off unseen by him and then walk up to him and tell him he is too stop doing this now. save the recording.
tell the police in writting even if they wont make a record of it you can write them about it. but see them in person too
do all this evidence building along with reporting him to the school .
if the police wont attend to the matter and the school fails you if you are 100% sure he is doing this and you have done everything legal to stop him then you need to bring in the guns. have 3 or 4 men go to him and tell him that he is not to be seen near you again ever and that he is to have no contact with you or to follow you ever again . then explain that if he does bug you again you wil have the men beat him up. tell him also that you have his picture stored with friends and reports to the police so even if he were to kill you the friends would still come after him . evidence or not. you need to have trusting intellegent male friends that can keep there cool here. . they also need to be willing to beat this guy up if needed. but they must not beat him up unless it is needed. so dont get mr macho . instead get someone like me a guy who you would never think was a great fighter always calm and cool but i can do what is needed. this is hard to find but we are out there. some former military men might have enough training to handle this matter . you do need to keep the forcefull part of this on the down low. but this is what you will need to do. sorry but that is the way it goes. if you dont have such male friends then hire some. i suggest from a military officers place that sort of thing. good luck and dont hurt this guy if you dont need to and give very extact instuctions to the men you have working for you on what they are to do and not do.
2007-02-18 13:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
anybody has infatuations now and lower back. yet i think of you style of take it to the severe. by using fact the extra you return throughout the time of as clingy, the further they're going to run. once you next like a guy, play it cool. do no longer save on with him around, attempt to minimize eye touch. you're able to do the whole, "lingering look" element to tutor which you have an pastime. yet gawping at them is going to place them off super time. and whether it does not finally end up the way you wanted. it is no longer the tip of the international! no person is suited for one, and attempt to no longer get your hopes so extreme. in case you save on with my advice, end being clingy, enable them to respire, do no longer stare, and end FOLLOWING! you're able to be positive.
2016-09-29 07:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have no interest in tutoring him and you find his behavior disturbing.Tell him to leave you alone or you will call the police.If he doesn't,call them and arrange for a restraining order against him.It may be hard to get as this sounds more like infatuation as opposed to a real threat,unless he is really a stalker.Good luck.
2007-02-18 13:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone, speak with security regarding him. If you seriously think he is stalking you and creeping you out, you need to take control of the situation and quickly before he acts on his behaviors and does more than just follow you around. However, you need to be very cerain you are not sending him mixed messages. Tell him you do not like him in that manner, have someone with you if you are afraid of him. Good luck and God bless****
2007-02-18 13:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it very, very clear to him that you aren't interested and you'd like him to stop following you around. Excuses aren't good enough; some guys don't get those hints. If necessary, get a restraining order.
2007-02-19 16:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush or infatuation is one thing...but if he said he's actually been following you around, not sure if there is anyone you can go to at the school or what but I would get someone else involved.
2007-02-18 13:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree get some guy friends ( the biggest ones you know) to hang out with you and when they see him have them tell this dude that you are totally off limits to him.
2007-02-26 10:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you don't like him and find it weird how he's following you all the time
if you've already told him that, then you should threated to call the police and get a restraining order on you if he doesn't stop following you
2007-02-18 13:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. Don't talk or look at him at all. If he wants to continue what he is doing, he has a right to! But you don't have to acknowledge it, and that should'nt bother you if you don't feel for the guy.
2007-02-18 18:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel2312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋