please please please help! do you think I'm pregnant!?

Question

Oh please help, I know I have already asked, but no one would answer...so once more...

I had unproctected sex almost 7 months ago, two days after my period
I was on birth control and he didnt 'come' while we were together (we only had sex for like 20 seconds).
I've had my period every month since then, on time and once I bled inbetween my period so heavily, i had to use a pad...
and I dont recall having sympotms that were out of the ordinary (i.e. missed period, tender breast..ect.)
I took a pregnanct test at 3:30 in the afternoon 4 months ago that came out negative.

And about that same time (3 months along), I had a PAP Smear.
Since Dec, I have lost 11 lbs. (which if you're preg. you gain weight, not lose it...right???)

I've been drinking, also...and I got beat up a few times, hit a lot in the tummy. =[

So with all that being said, my question is: Do you think I could still be pregnant?

I've very scared and worried. thanks for your time.

xo

I see a lot of you comment on the drinking part, and I wanted to add that I have drank in a while. There was just a period where I'd drink quite a bit on weekends.

I only got beat up once, I stopped hanging out with the people who did that to me.

And to the ma'am who said I should be reported, I'm sorry you feel this way, but I'm just concerned, and wanted feedback. By the way, I only asked this question 3 times, not 9. (I dont mean that in a rude sense.) Thanks again for all of your replies.

xo

Answer 1

If you've had periods every month, it is very unlikely that you're pregnant. At 7 months, you'd be really uncomfortable, you'd be feeling the baby move, you'd be big, etc.

I think you need to start making better choices. Drinking? Getting beaten up? What can you change in your life so these things stop happening?

Answer 2

First off, there are many, many reasons why you cannot possibly be pregnant, the most-convincing of which is that you had a Pap smear. The reason that I know that you cannot possibly be pregnant from what you did way back 7 months ago is that there are changes in your cervix when any woman is pregnant that a doctor will IMMEDIATELY notice!

What worries me more about you (or at least I'd be worried if you were my real-life friend) is the drinking bit, the getting beat up bit, and--most importantly--this obsession-with-pregnancy bit,. You really need some good, supportive counseling, so that you can start to get your life back under control. If you don't have insurance for counseling and/or if you have no resources at school or work, maybe you could go see a free counselor at your local battered woman's shelter. Sometimes Planned Parenthood has counselors who work on a "sliding scale" as well. Alternatively, you could seek out a very mature and knowledgeable woman friend and confide in her. At least that'd be a start.

Answer 3

Let me tell you a story. My senior year of high school I hear this story. She was a senior at the time. She went to the hospital one night and thought she had a kdney infection. When the ER doctor came in and checked her he told her she was going to have a baby. She asked when he said anytime. She never knew she was pregnant the whole time. She had a period never gained any weight and was even playing volleyball the night before she went into labor. And from personal experience weight gain is not a sign of pregnancy. I have lost 35 pounds this pregnancy alone and have with everone of my kids. Alot of women lose weight. I was beat on with my first child so you could definitly still be pregnant and still get beat. There is a very good chance that you could be pregnant. Have you taken a test? You should really get checked out to make sure whether or not you are so you can get as pre-natal care as you can. It is very important. Some women also need a blood test to see if they are pregnant or not. So I would definitley get a test done from your doctor or local healthe dept. to find out if you are pregnant or not.

Answer 4

You really need to create a group of friends that do not do things like punch you. If you were drinking it is possible you have a memory lapse. Take another test, stop drinking and start forming friendship with girls who will look out for you and not do risky things together.


Pregnancy tests are not accurate until 1-2 weeks after ovulation.

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Random acts of intercourse achieve a 24% pregnancy rate per cycle.
Having sex on certain days of the cycle has pregnancy rates to 31%-68%
Note that 25% of pregnancies are lost within the first six weeks since the woman's last menstrual period

For all fertility awareness methods, actual effectiveness can be significantly lower than method effectiveness - some studies have found actual failure rates of 25% per year or higher.

Post-ovulation methods (i.e. abstaining from intercourse from menstruation until after ovulation) have a method failure rate of 1% per year.

The symptothermo method has a method failure rate of 2% per year.

The cervical mucus-only methods have a method failure rate of 3% per year.

Calendar rhythm has a method failure rate of 9% per year.

The Standard Days Method has a method failure rate of 5% per year.

Answer 5

I don't think you could be pregnant. First, you would already be about 6 months along and I am pretty sure you would have had some symptoms by now. Second, you said that you had a PAP smear done and they would have noticed if you were pregnant.
If you are still concerned that you might be, I strongly suggest that you go to a doctor. If you don't have one or can't afford one then go to a free clinic. I am sure that you can find one in your area. Hope this helps.....

Answer 6

Honey, by now you would know if you were pregnant. But for heaven's sake, go to the doctor and put your mind at ease. If you are doing all the drinking, fighting and whatever else that comes up, you are not living a very healthy life anyway. I am sure these are things that you do not want to hear. It is time you grow up, become responsible for your choices and your actions!!! Now, get your behind to the doctor, and get your life in order and stop having unprotected sex. The life you save may just be your own.

Answer 7

Sweetie, if you ever were pregnant, you aren't now. When you had a PAP Smear done was the time to ask but the doctor still would have been able to tell if you were at that time. Clean up your life & you won't have to worry so much.

Answer 8

no if you had unprotected sex 7 months ago and a pregnancy test 4 months ago and it came out negative chances are you are not pregnant. My biggest concern for you is that you are drinking and getting beat up. honey you need help now. if you are losing weight you should see your doctor immediately if not sooner. you are in for a world of hurt if you do not get this under control before it is too late. Alcohlism can make your life totally miserable and you can lose a lot including your self respect. I urge you to get professional help before it is too late. God bless and put angels on your pillows. good luck

Answer 9

YOU WERE NEVER PREGNANT TO BEGIN WITH. Use common sense here. Is your belly really big and round? Is something kicking? You've had a period which means NOT PREGNANT! You've had a Pap smear, and the doctor didn't say you were pregnant which means you're NOT PREGNANT! You were on birth control which means NOT PREGNANT. Absolutely no symptoms of pregnancy which means NOT PREGNANT. No weight gain which means NOT PREGNANT!

What do you mean no one answered your question? You've asked it a gazillion times.

Answer 10

No you are not pregnant. You would be showing symptom's by now and well you would be showing - you'd know and so would everyone else!
20 seconds is all it takes though (as sad as that is ) next time don't chance it! Alway's use protection, "No Condom, No Sex!"
You need to see a psychiatrist for your obvious depression and alcoholism and for allowing others to abuse you. Please seek help before it is too late. Your body is your temple.