She doesn't feel the same about you at this point but it could happen. She is trying to absorb all this mentally and emotionally. Give her time, don't pressure her. She is not ready for a 'love' relationship now and doesn't want to turn you off or hurt your feelings. If you really care, let her set the timetable and agenda. Don't give yourself false hope or feel defeated. Let it work itself out.
She is definitely not ready for a commitment from you. I've been in her situation and it is not comfortable. Instead of being overwhelmed I wish he would have just let our friendship grow and accept where I was emotionally at the time.
Sometimes when one feels very strongly for another they cannot comprehend that the other person's feeling are not similar. What you want from them may not be what you want from them. GIVE IT TIME, ONE DAY AT A TIME AND DO NOT PRESSURE HER.
God bless both of you and may He give you wisdom.
2007-02-18 13:48:10
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to find out what took her so long to answer without sounding accusing. She may have had a very heavy schedule and not had the time to check her email, or answer it if she had checked it. Why is she abroad, leisure travel, business or even family. All things need to be taken into consideration as she may have a full agenda as she travels. It sounds like she did respond eventually and that in itself is a plus.
2007-02-18 21:43:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Girls think things over too much. She was probably just taking time to think about what kind of feelings she has for you and how she's going to respond to your email. Good luck homie!
2007-02-18 21:40:20
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answered by Anonymous
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okay you seriously just move WAY to quickly. You cannot tell a girl that , that quickly. I think you outta write her an email back explaining yourself. You have probably scared her off, because she might not think your the one. Good Luck with this one!
2007-02-18 21:43:43
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answered by jaide1108 2
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Call her and talk to her telling her how u feel in an email is kinda stupid that should have been done in person to begin with. Or you can go to her house and talk to her.
2007-02-18 21:39:42
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answered by HatersEnvyMe 2
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try to call her, maybe an email wouldn't work, maybe you should talk to her face to face. Don't try to hard by sending her love letters, poems, or flowers. Love takes time, good things come to he who waits.
2007-02-18 21:40:56
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answered by Tootsie 2
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How do you know she even has check her email. she could have had Internet problems or not home she may have a job she will probably answer you back don't worry
2007-02-18 21:41:46
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answered by sporty 4
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Give her a day or so, and If you don't hear from her call her up and ask how she is doing. and ask her if she recieved your email. good luck. I hope you hear what you want to hear.
2007-02-18 21:39:41
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answered by misty blue 6
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Perhaps you should wait untill she replies, she is most proberly just thinking over every thing you said to her. I am sure that if she likes you she will reply to your email.
2007-02-18 21:41:30
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answered by wrnr_rt 1
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How soon were you expecting a reply? I say give her a little more time to respond, then try contacting her again.
2007-02-18 21:41:11
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answered by ss 1
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