I'm asian, and not all that attractive. I have a little sense of humor and I can play the piano pretty well. and I'm somewhat intelligent. And here's a girl I like in highschool. An American popular stereotypical white girl. What should I do. Do I stand a chance? What should I do?
2007-02-18 13:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you already have a skill right at your fingertips that all women would love to be played for them, the piano!!
use this skill my friend, to make the first contact with her,ask her if she likes the piano and tell her you would like to play a song for her or if she would like to learn a few notes.
play for her "lady in red" by Chrid Deburgh!!
you have also mentioned your are intelligent so i'm guessing your good at maths and science subjects which this girl would not be great at and will need some tutoring, believe me, even the gorgeous ones need to get an education which involves thier least favourite subjects!!
use her as well, but be smart about it and don't fall for her too quickly, let her fall for you! there are a million gorgeous girls but how many people have you skills?? if i had your skill i would do exactly what i am telling you to do with every woman i have fallen for!!
looks are not everything my friend, believe me i am a catwalk model in Europe and would love to have your skills, looks can be lost but your skills will remain with you so use them for your enjoyment and hopefully hers!!
also go to the gym and train your body, it will keep your mind sharp and develop your body, there is nothing more dangerous than a guy with brains and a fit body!! do not care about what the white jocks at school think or anyone else!
you live once, go for it!!
good luk.
2007-02-18 14:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by MIKI S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably more attractive than you think. You know what? If she is Miss Popular, she may feel pressure not to hang out with you. But, after high school it all changes. Everyone gets a mind of their own. She might come around. You need to come across as confident, though. Without confidence, you may not have much of a chance. Good luck!
2007-02-18 13:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out by trying to be her friend - get to know her a little bit before jumping into the dating scene with her. Try to share your musical interest with her - charm her with your piano playing. See if there is any substance to her, or just a cute, dippy popular girl. What I'm saying is, see if she is the kind of person you want to date before you put yourself out there for her.
2007-02-18 13:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I hate to tell you that you probably dont have all that much of a chance with people like that...I dont anyway. But you know it wouldnt hurt to give it a try...I mean what can you lose?( Easier said than done I know). All you will probably get is emberrassment a fear of ever asking a girl out ever again.I would just do it while you have the chance.
2007-02-18 13:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume she doesn't like shy guys. You need to work on your confidence. Find out what her interests are, so you can talk to her.
I also suggest you get help with your hairstyle and look, a new wardrobe maybe? Good luck!
2007-02-18 13:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stand up 2 ur fear and ask her out u may not stand a chance but u'll never know unless u ask
2007-02-18 13:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by mommy to be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, she might make an exception for a guy with all those attributes!!
2007-02-18 13:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey jkust go for it if she say not well that will be her lost not yours always keep that in mind...
2007-02-18 13:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋