2007-02-18 13:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by sny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you and him may need to go through some counseling before marriage
2007-02-18 13:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on why your fiance doesn't trust you. Did you do something to cause this person's mistrust? If the answer is a absolute no, and if this person has always been a mistrusting person then several things must happen. 1. You should talk it over with each other, find out what the issue(s) is/are. 2. Then try to sort them out together. 3. If the issue is big, then you should seek a counselor, which is suggested before a couple marries anyway. 4. Then if counseling doesn't work or you decide it is not worth saving then you should break it off. Otherwise defiently post pone until all negitive charma is out of the air and only good is in. Not a good way to start off the marriage. If there is abuse in the relationship, of any kind. Leave!!! I promise it doesn't stop and only gets worse. Good luck!
2007-02-18 21:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust you now, he won't trust you after the wedding. Not only should you postpone the engagement, CANCEL it and RUN! Trust is a foundation stone in a relationship, without, you have nothing.
2007-02-18 21:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately yes.
I have been married for 30 years to the same wonderful man so I should know. Love and trust are entwined and you can not live a happy marriage without both.
2007-02-18 21:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by noblelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best to find out why that she don't trust u before getting engagement.
2007-02-18 21:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should, you guys need counseling first before you two get married. You need to be with someone who can trust you or your marriage will fall apart. You two arent ready, if she doesn't trust you its obvious she or he is having doubts.
2007-02-18 21:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by SexyBlackFasho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!!!!!,postpone it, its a real bad way to start a relationship, without trust, it will never ,never work.no-trust, no relationship, maybe you could fake one but that's all you'll have is a fake one
2007-02-18 21:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
postpone? cancel it....If is no trust is no a good future infront of both of you understand?
2007-02-18 21:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, it'll get worse and I gather your fiance will eventually want to "own" you.
2007-02-18 21:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, she dose not trust ya now, she'll never will. your marriage will be a living hell.
2007-02-18 21:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by rickinobetz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋