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Is it Gods wish or will that we restore all wayward relationships in our lives? Im trying to find info for a friend. Thanks

2007-02-18 13:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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2007-02-18 13:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wardog 3 · 0 0

I am not sure that it is wise to restore ALL wayward relationships in our lives, but I know that we should forgive everyone who has trangressed against us. Case in point: A guy robs you at gun point and subsequently ends up in jail. I would forgive the guy, but I wouldn't search him out for verbal communication.

Also it takes two to restore a relationship. Sometimes you try and the other person is not interested. In that point I would just impress on the other person that I have forgiven him/her and will wait patiently until they feel able to speak. That is all you can do. Remember even Paul and Barnabas had a parting of the way.

2007-02-18 21:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by ignoramus_the_great 7 · 1 0

There are quite a few here is the first one and I will look for more.

Galatians 6:1
1Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.

Matthew 5:22-24 (New International Version)

22But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother[a]will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,[b]' is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell.

23"Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift

Matthew 18:15-17 (New International Version)

A Brother Who Sins Against You
15"If your brother sins against you,[a] go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. 16But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.'[b] 17If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.

Sorry to be so long winded, but these are the best examples of what the Bible says about restoring relationships. It is not easy, but for your friends peace, I think it is worth the attempt. My parents divorced and the pain it caused was great. Now, while not married, they get along and share in the joys of being Grandparents. I only wish they could completely restore, but that is not likely. I also wish they came to the saving grace of God.

2007-02-18 21:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by crimthann69 6 · 1 0

Absolutley. You should always forgive a person, like Jesus forgave us. Forgive debts, of any kind! We should always work out relationships, wheather it be marrige, friends or family. As long as you do it by the bible, and do not compromise on the word of God, you can not go wrong!

2007-02-18 21:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bl3ss3dw1thL1f3 4 · 1 0

Gospel of St. Matthew 5:23: Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath aught against thee;

24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.

2007-02-18 21:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Blessed are the peace makers. You don't have to hang around the person any more, but forgive and be civil.

2007-02-18 22:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

The scriptures tell us that we should live in peace with all men to the extend that it is possible.

You need to be the one to live in peace with your fellow man, and if they refuse to do the same, then so be it.

grace2u

2007-02-18 21:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Theophilus 6 · 1 0

When slapped ,turn the other cheek so if they wish to slap it they can. After that beat 'He--- out of them! Forgive thy brother 70x7 if need be

2007-02-18 21:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It depends. Some are worth fixing and others better to be left alone.

2007-02-18 21:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by charmaine f 5 · 0 0

All the trite Bible quotes didn't quite answer your question. Suggestion: think for yourself and put your Bible in a drawer.

2007-02-18 21:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 0 2

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