OK Here's the Deal I dating this Girl now who is Great it all ways Funny, Beautiful, Smart, and Fun to hang with who also "gets Me"...
But Last night my Ex girlfriend who I havent seen for a Year,Texted me to meet her and a friend out for a drink. So I went, We hit it off like we have been dating the whole time. The catch is we maybe lit a old flame again.. I Just dont know what to do here.
The Girl I'm dating now is great, But the ex is the one who never left my mind over that year, almost ever day I thought about her and there is just something about her that just pulls me in.
Not sure what to do here. Has anyone else every been in something like this?
Thanks for any Help
2007-02-18 13:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by Niceguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So it sounds like your a really nice guy. You are in the same palce I was in. I would break up with the girl you are with now, but tell her the truth. You are in love with another girl and you don't want to keep hurting her. If that is the case. If you tell her the situation, she will be more understanding, then if you lie to her about this. Good Luck! E-mail me or IM me if you need more help.
2007-02-18 13:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Country Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Niceguy,
Just try to remember why you and your ex separated in the first place??? Sounds like you and your new girl get along just fine. You mention that your current girlfriend gets you...... Does this mean that the last one didn't??? If so, what will change to make her get you this time??? Maybe she's just heard that you seem really happy with this new girl and, as us girlies tend to do, the green eyed monster kicked in !!! She probably just thought, " ....oh no!!! I don't want him as my boyfriend but I was with him for soooooo long and I need a confidence boost so I'll get him to come for a drink with me!!!" I don't really know why we girls do that stuff, but hey, you get that!!!
Besides, didn't you think it odd that she didn't want to have drinks just you and her??? Course she didn't, safety in numbers you know. She's just playing silly buggers with you mate, stay with the new girl. Just move on mate, no such thing as reigniting the past. Times change people don't...........
............. :0 )
PEACE
2007-02-18 13:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Minx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to the girl you are dating and don't be a jerk like evrybody us... And trust me I don't wishyou a good luck with the ex an ex is an ex so
2007-02-18 13:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend let her back into your life make sure she knows about your great girl adn mabye she just wants to be friends like I have to be friends with one of my ex's
2007-02-18 13:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by turttle_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never go backwards,either one or the other.
2007-02-18 13:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋