I feel like my bf of 7 years is getting bored with our sex life. I've been in an awful slump lately and don't even really care about my appearance. Do you think he'd appreciate it if I got a mini-make-over and put on some cute little nightie and basically, seduced him? How can we spice things up? We are also both very, very broke right now. Should we try to set money aside and go on a romantic weekend getaway? Any suggestions that aren't very expensive? I live near Chicago. Anyone ever go to Sybaris? What about Wisconsin Dells?
2007-02-18 13:03:03 · 6 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mini makeover sounds like a good start to get yourself out of that "awful slump" After that it doesnt have to cost that much money, just be creative! Dress upp in something sexy and do a little striptease for him. Let him watch while you masturbate. Touch yourself all over and tell him how much you wish his hands were all over you right now but make sure they aren't though by tying him up first.
Then blindfold him and tease him with a feather, icecubes, hot wax (if his into that), different textures etc. You can drip chocolate syrup on him and lick it up. Even drip some on his member and clean it properly.
Give him bj but stop before he climax and start all over again. Tease him and make him beg for release. Then when he cant take it no more - jump him and give him the ride of his life.
Your guy will be one lucky man!
2007-02-22 03:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Monty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of your ideas sound great to spice things up a little bit.....Other things you can do is try new things, as well....such as try new positions, new locations, new techniques.....If you have never gone oral or anal before, give it a try.......Some sexy nighties should also help to stimulate him, and seducing him should turn him on......ask yourself this question, too: why are you in this slump? What can you do to take yourself out of it so that you do start caring again? Start here and this should help you...then trying new things in bed will spice things up, and then taking a little getaway could also help to respark passion (especially with the excitement of making love in a new location)......you could also do something like take a shower/bath/bubble bath together and have sex while in the act (then clean up after you are done).......basically, anything that will stimulate each of you and get him reinterested in your sex life will help the both of you (and hopefully take you out of your slump)......make yourself feel sexy and then he will respond! It is all about attitude.....
2007-02-18 21:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't necessarily have to spend so much money on lingerie, try finding something cute or set the mood with a candle and offer to give him a massage.....nude! one thing leads to another and it will be a good start to try to spice things up. Once you get some cash, try bringing in some toys into the sex life and let him use them on you....also guys love to see their girl show them how they take care of things when they are alone....but in front of them. Sorry if it's too much lol but sweetie.....what happens behind doors ....stays behind doors and no one has to know.....don't be afraid!
2007-02-18 21:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sybaris is great but expensive to stay overnight. The French Country Inn near Lake Geneva is also very nice. They have rooms with hot tubs.
2007-02-18 21:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they mini makeover idea is a good one you should at least try it and trust me girl your sex life will keep going down hill if you don't keep your appearance up.
2007-02-18 21:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to try Kama Sutra
2007-02-18 22:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋