This man is 35 years old with a 9 year old son.. He claims he works all the time we have been talking for a week now but see the thing is this.. He calls me when it is convienent for him I have never been able to call him ad get him on the phone I always hae to leave a message. He claims to have a laptop and he is using a internet card through his job and i know you have to have a phone line to get online period unless you are using a cable.. He has time gaps between emails and phone calls like 4-6 hours gaps.. He wont tell me much about his family he turns around an asks me about my family and what I like to do instead. Could this man be married? When I bring it up to him he wants to say I am crazy but am I crazy? I have been through a bad relationship before and I have every right to question a man's intentions. So you tell me is he married or should I chill out??
2007-02-18 12:24:30 · 13 answers · asked by whiteroses202004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's hiding things from you, quite possibly married or living some type of double life. Confront him and ask him what's wrong. If he calls you crazy, tell him that if your not going to be able to talk to him when you want to that your not going to keep up this relationship. He has no intentions of you knowing much about him, but obviously he wants to know lots about you. I would be leery of him, there is definitely something wrong there, probably a wife, boyfriend or girlfriend.
2007-02-18 13:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... you have only been talking for a week... chill out a little bit. Secondly, you can be on line with a laptop if it is wireless, most of them are. I think I would not try to contact him and let him do all the work for you. Take it from another woman... don't be so eager to have a relationship, if he is married he might see the potential of having a fling and in the end you are going to be hurt. It isn't that hard to find out if someone is married... he has a son, a last name and a home and a job... do a little searching; you might be surprised what you find. Protect your heart and NEVER be the one to make all the moves... be smart!!! He COULD wind up being more than just married!!
2007-02-18 12:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy is married or he could be one of those guys who is in touch with more than one woman and feeding you all the same bull. I would not trust him if I were you, he will only hurt you and you have already been through that! Give up on him and look for someone who you can see and be with alot, someone who will give you time in his life, not someone you have to make appointments with because they are too busy with others!
Good Luck!!
2007-02-18 12:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not married but he's defintley cheating on you or he just doesn't feel right with you. You need to tell him what is going on in his life because you are part of it. Tell him straight foward but don't bring it out of the blue. Speak to him when you are ready to listen and when you know he is too!
2007-02-18 12:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like something fishy is going on . I would check this out alot better than you have . I would pinpoint him to a telephone number and ask why he never takes you to his place or ask to see his place and see what he says. you can then put 2 and 2 together and see what happens. good luck .
2007-02-18 12:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the road even if he isn't married he sounds like he has issues that you don't need in the middle of.
2007-02-18 12:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by startin' again 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious. Keep investigating he could be married or have a g/f.
2007-02-18 12:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by time_ready_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. Just say it in a calm vioce, with your head slightly to the side. He won't be able to lie, and if your calm he won't get too weirded out.
2007-02-18 12:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty suspicious. Does he seem like he is trying to hide something from you? If he does he may be.
2007-02-18 12:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out. Us girls tend to be over paranoid. Chill, girl. Have fun.
2007-02-18 12:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by bellerzz* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋