I broke up with my first real boyfriend in august. Between then and now he would occasionally get mad at me about the fact that we broke up. He still wanted to be friends so I never gave up on him. We talked on Valentines Day and his mom came over to see me (our families are really close and we talk a lot). I really miss him and I want to tell him but I don’t know how. I talked to my older cousin who was there for me throughout our whole relationship and he said that I should just tell Roland but I need help as to how. I keep thinking that he still holds a grudge and he might say no because of it. I know he still cares for me because of the way he talks to me. So can you help me please.
Note: I am only 16 (17 in April). Should I just move on because other guys want to date me but I have them kinda on hold right now…
2007-02-18 11:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure talk with him if he means something to you. If you want a friendship and it can be a friendship then call him!
2007-02-18 12:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by SimplyHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to Roland. You will never know unless you talk to him about it. Maybe you'll find it best to say "goodbye" the right way this time or maybe you'll find out that you two are ready to start over and put the past behind you. If your excited about the other guys that you have on hold, that may be a sign that you should cut your ties with Roland.
2007-02-18 11:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much you want him back... if you think things will just go bad again and brake up again then dont tell him... it depends on how comfortable you are telling him... if your shy do it over the phone or text message, if your comfortable with him tell him to his face! if he likes you still he wont say no, no grudge is worth holding if you still miss out on the girl! haha. just say you miss him and think about him all the time... ask if he feels the same way? good luck darl
2007-02-18 11:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends ... How much do ya like the current bf? Personally, I'd him be a man and make him make the first move. Of course, if you really miss him, then I'd tell him
2007-02-18 12:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brainz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you shuold talk 2 him again tell him how you feel then give it a day or so then go 4 1 of da other guys!
2007-02-18 11:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Emmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he matters that much, then YES! you should talk to him! of course, don't spend your whole time on him. you can talk to him, but if other guys like you, then don't reject them just because of your ex. i talked to my ex again after missing him for over 4 months, and we're somewhat closer now than when we were when we broke up!
good luck!
2007-02-18 11:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by jessC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure talk to him but trie to fiend an other boy friend.
2007-02-18 11:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what you think is best,but i think you should talk again but just as friends.
2007-02-18 11:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sure give chances
2007-02-18 11:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by [trapped][in][a][box] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him your boobs.
2007-02-18 11:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋