and it seemed as though we liked each other mutually I broke off the friendship becasue I feel what we were doing was wrong. I think it was going no where fast but I can not stop thinking about him. We have know each other for years and git serious 4 months ago. Is he still thinking of me?
2007-02-18 11:48:01 · 23 answers · asked by drferg360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did the right thing!
You may always think of him ... but that is okay, that doesn't mean you should have a relationship with him! And in the future avoid men who are married or otherwise attached. It never leads to good things. Also, you would be considered the "marriage wrecker" even though he had equal part in it. And ... if he would cheat on his wife, then he would also cheat on YOU!
Applause for you for doing the right thing. Hang in there and move on.
2007-02-18 11:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is still thinking of you, but I think you did the right thing in breaking up with him. He has a wife and imagine how she would feel if she ever found out! It's best to leave him alone and find a decent single guy. Good Luck with everything.
2007-02-18 19:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still married, leave it alone girl! Your better off. Any man that would cheat while he is married, is more likely to do it to you. Cheating is habit that is not easily broken. If you really want to be with him, then wait until he is single and able to give you 100%, you deserve that and you should demand it! Good Luck
2007-02-18 19:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right, it was going nowhere - at least nowhere good. Remember, when you marry a man who cheats on his wife, what you get is a husband who cheats on his wife. And, by your actions, you've already let him know that cheating is acceptable with you.
Move on, learn a lesson, and build good relationships in the future.
2007-02-18 19:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doenst matter if he is still thinking of your, You need to stop thinking of him. Don't get involved with a married man! It will lead to nothing but pain and sorrow!
2007-02-18 19:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he is thinking of you is irrelevant. Married people are unavailable until they get divorced. For your own good and for the good of everyone else in both of your lives, do not start seeing him again.
2007-02-18 19:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by stonecutter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married! Is he getting a divorce? If he is, is it because of you? Why is he getting a divorce? You would have to ask him if he's thinking of you still. Probably thinking of the chick he is with at this time.
2007-02-18 19:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this to yourself. It will only get harder. I saw a friend go through this. Tell him to give you a ring when he gets his divorce. In the meantime, find yourself someone who you can really trust and who is available.
2007-02-18 19:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by R! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless I'm psychic...I can't answer that truthfully. You did the right thing to break it off. If there were feelings between the two of you, I am sure you cross his mind, as he does yours.
2007-02-18 19:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the course, you did the right thing. Now don't just sit there, go find an ''available'' guy!;]
2007-02-18 19:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋