I am 14 years old. been with the same girl since i was 7 years old. We both really love each other. She is 14 years old also. 2 months ago, I had the most memorable moment with her (made love), and now she is pregnant. Yeah, I used a condom properly. I don't want to leave her but her parents are going to kill me. I'm sure her parents won't let me continue seeing her anymore but I love her so much. She feels the same way.
2007-02-18 11:43:50 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yeah, I known her since when she was 4 years old, our parents were friends.
2007-02-18 11:52:03 · update #1
Well if you have a child on the way with her, then they can't ban you from seeing her because she is pregnant with your child. You have alot of responsibility now, so you should try to get some kind of income and maybe they will see that your responsible. Good luck.
2007-02-18 11:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course her parents are going to be angry with both of you, but you guys need to be honest and tell them. you need to speak to them from the heart and let them know that you are going to be there for her through all of it. you can't leave her this is your kid too and i know how it felt when my father left me its not fair. you are both going to have to take the heat and suck it up and stick it out whats done is done. I would reccomend you both studying about this alot. I personally dont beleive in adoption but mabey you guys could ask your parents to adopt the baby until you are finished with school. this is definetly not going to be an easy task caring for a baby an all but you guys have to face this now there is no turning back. and remember abortion is murder do not have an abortion. If you would like anymore help on this or support feel free to contact me at kitty45342@yahoo.com alot of my friends got pregnant when they were young so i can definetly give you some advice on this issue
2007-02-18 12:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by kitty45342 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on..your 14..**** i hate that! But what can i do? The parents will do whats best for thier daughter..hopefully but from now on keep it in okay? I mean do you really think your ready to have a kid? You havent even made it to highschool..i dont believe in abortion but i think adoption is always a good way to go, lots of people would love for a baby!
2007-02-18 11:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by nessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you love each other, but you should have waited until you were in your 20's or 30's. I didn't think anyone in their right mind would do that at an age of a mere 14. No advice here, just shock.
2007-02-18 11:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by robinbird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, please don't get an abortion, human life is very precious and it's not our right to take it away. If you are unable to support the child, than adoption to a wonderful home is a good alternative, if you still want to see the child, after you give it up for adoption, you can get what's called an "Open Adoption", where you visit the child and see the child after it's born and you give it up for adoption to the family of your choice.
2007-02-19 09:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Future Top Chef 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and talk to both of your parents and figure out what to do.
It would be ideal if both families could sit down together and discuss options maturely, but that would be rare, given the seriousness and emotionality of the situation.
You're going to be a father, so you need to man-up and be there for your girlfriend. Life changes now, and you need to be ready.
2007-02-18 12:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Winston, you are such a liar! In one of your question you say that you are 22 years old and in another question you say that you like a girl in your school, but you don't know what to do about it. So, what's your problem? Are you trying to be funny? Because, if you are, it's not working. Try harder next time.
P.S. Oh, yes, I am one of those guys who read the profile and the previous questions of the people whose questions I am about to answer. What can I say, I am like no other... I wonder how many people answered your "question" so far.
2007-02-18 11:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by mrquestion 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I just read through your questions and 4 months ago you were 22 with no friends, so which is it? Are you a14 year old or a 22 year old?
2007-02-18 11:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by kmv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, no matter what her parents say or do that is your child...you dont let anything come between you and your child... but you are pretty young and dont need a child at this moment in life but, get a job, be there for her and your child, and dont worry about the parents, yeah they will be mad for a wile but they'll get over it, they cant keep you away from her for this because you need to be there for her physically and mentally....stay stong and good luck
2007-02-18 11:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by kristan_rocks_1989 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um know if i can believe u but anyways just keep seeing her and when the parents come around and u no there going 2 say something just deal with it u guys got your self into this problem
2007-02-18 11:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋