Is there only one predestined person to be your soul mate?

Question

I think I've lost mine to someone else. We still have feelings for each other and miss each other dearly

Answer 1

No, but once you find one, you know it and never want to lose it. I, fortunately have had two. I was widowed very young and we were ment to be together forever. Recently I remarried, and I know we are two of a kind. If you lost yours to someone else, he wasn't your soul mate, keep looking.

Answer 2

I don't believe that there's just one person predestined to be a person's soulmate. There are "soulmates" in which the connection may not just be about love; it could just be someone you have are compatible with. Then there are "soulmates" -both of you have deep feelings for each other that geographical distance and other emotional ties cannot break. How do you know you totally lost that person to someone else? If that person still has feelings for you, is it more of platonic love type or more "I feel I could spend the rest of my life with this person" type? If both of you feel that you're meant to be together and both of you are ready for that type of relationship, then don't waste time being scared!

I've felt a "connection" with 2 guys (both of them mutual): with the first one, I wasn't ready for a relationship and since we "heard" each other's thoughts and felt each other's feelings (he would answer my question out loud when I only thinking it in my head and he felt me crying when we were in opposite rooms) the fact that we had that kind of connection scared me-he wanted to start a relationship since he thought what we had was special. I didn't want to pursue it and I lost him to someone else. With the 2nd one, there is also a connection- we met in a class last semester and we talked and there is something between us, but it was wrong timing as I had a boyfriend at that time, but now I don't have a boyfriend and we've been seeing each other around campus in passing, and driving past each other on the freeway and driving past each other going opposite ways in a parking lot of a major grocery store, but kind of afraid to move ahead and talk again. There's a saying: "People show up in your life for a reason" and I believe it--Sometimes you get a second chance so don't ruin it for yourself!

Answer 3

I don't think your soul mate necessarily needs to be your spouse (and/or lover), nor could I positively say that two people are "predestined" to be soul mates, but I think that if they truly are soul mates, they will be so for life, and nothing will come between them. I believe that people don't feel complete until they find their soul mate. I think it is possible to find another soul mate if, for example, your soul mate dies, and it may even be possible for three or more people to be soul mates. Regardless, the feeling that someone is your soul mate won't be one-sided: it will be as mutual as it is strong...and never-ending. The feeling won't "come and go". In fact it gets stronger with every passing day.

Answer 4

If it was predestined, then how come we find the one we feel we are meant to be soul mates with so near each other...

By that, I mean there is a whole world out there... Many chances for many different soul mates.

Answer 5

I honestly don't believe that there is only one person for everybody. That would be so harsh. I think once you are with someone whom you love passionately you will feel that they are the only one for you but should that relationship turn sour there are others you can feel just as intensely about. (or even more intensely about)

If you miss each other then you never know what will happen but should it not work out don't give up. There are others. Stay open to finding one and keep your heart hopeful.

Answer 6

No, I have several people in my life who could be considered my 'soul mates'. My sister and I are very close, and my best friends, too. As far as a partner? No way. How can there be billions of people in the world and only 1 person for me? If that were the case, wouldn't there be equal numbers of men and women in the world (same-sex partnerships aside)? Besides, thinking that way is really depressing.

Answer 7

No, I don't think so....maybe for a select few couples. People change, their tastes change, so obviously their lovers change. It may not be true for all people, the couples who stay married for 25-50 years or even longer either learn how to change together, get really good at ignoring each other or very possibly feel stuck and think they are too old to start over, or are so used to each other that it doesn't matter. It's all a matter of personal emotional cycles and being in control of them or engulfed by them.

Answer 8

There are zero that are "predestined"....there are potentially many soulmates out there, but realize that a soulmate isn't necessarily a romantic partner...a soulmate is simply someone we feel a strong bond/tie to almost immediately...they can be same or opposite sex as we are, and we may meet several or none in a lifetime....

Someone can be a fabulous romantic partner/match for us and not be a soulmate...there are also MANY of those out in the world (potentially great partners)...if you feel you passed on one, don't worry there are others and you may find one of them to be an even better match ☺

Answer 9

I am married to my soul mate and this is my second marriage but he completes me we complete each other. I know that I could never loose mine to another and he could never loose me to another.that is a true soul mate and if you really miss each other than don't fight destiny go back and fight for him what ever it takes sometimes men don't know what is best for them/ By the way I had to ask my soul mate to marry me he didn't ask me and I am not sure if he was ever going to but 17 years ago I asked and 2 days later we were married. Good luck

Answer 10

No, there is no such thing as a soul mate there is more than one person in the world you are compatible with. They say that,because when you find that "one person" your happy with you don't have to look any farther.But somewhere else there is another who would be that "one person".