my b/f has been distant form me and i dont feel as pretty as i used to, he tells me i am every once in a while but he used to be all about me, i feel like he is tired of me and dosent want to be around me any more, b/c the way i look. what are some things i can do to enhance the way i look? i am not fat but i want to lose 15lbs, i am now 110lbs but i am only 5'1", i have blonde hair and brown eyes, idk if this helps but please help me im desparate.
2007-02-18 11:34:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him.
If that doesn't work dump him
2007-02-18 11:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have to say this before I contine: Don't worry too much about your weight, if you want to loose some pounds that's fine, but don't put any stess on it. That's about a normal ratio.
As for your question.
The best way to become beutiful is to think it. It's a powerful trick that supermodels and the like use where they tell themselves they are beautiful and the mindset of it all co-ordinates with their body to turn them into something beautiful. So that's the first thing I'd recommend you do is start telling yourself that you are beautiful.
As for getting your boyfriend to pay more attention to you and say you're beautiful: Try getting a new haircut, or different look, just experiment a little and every now and then ask him if he likes your hair or likes your clothes and what not. You can't expect a guy to call you beautiful every time he sees you, but you can get his input on the different styles and features he likes about you and it'll be understood that he still thinks you're pretty.
2007-02-18 19:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever that abou that he might no think you r pretty anymore because he has been with some one els?. What you had b fore wit him needs to be rekindled,soon. Dressing up is not going to solve it. The only way to do that is by talking to him, for real. Sit him down and see where the relationship going., It might not be all about looks. I mean you do look the same way you did when you started going out right? nothing has changed, but the relatioship. talk about it!
2007-02-18 19:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
5'1 110 pounds, blonde hair and brown eyes...you sound just like my gf except she is 5'10 same weight. Why would you want to lose 15 pounds your weight is normal...don't lose it. maybe he feels like you already know how much he cares about you so he doesnt have to express it...just tell him you want him too. trust me you do not have to change what you look like..i can picture what you look like just by the description and you seem fine.
2007-02-18 19:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your insecurities are getting the best of you. Just talk to him about it, tell him that you have needs and sometimes want to fell pretty and wanted.
2007-02-18 19:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't MAKE a guy want you. if you lose 15 more pounds you will only turn him off more. you'd look like a sack of bones.
2007-02-18 19:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Peachie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i no its hard but be yourself honey you cant be like the models on the magazine because there not real. but atleeast keep yourself up to date don't try to over do it. the next time you see him just wear a new outfit with a new hair do
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2007-02-18 19:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by im so reaaallyy sexxyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound like a D.I.C.K why dont you come over here ill make you feel loved all the time.
2007-02-18 20:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jelious by talking to other guys a lot
2007-02-18 19:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by elibelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation is a relationship killer. If he isn't satisfied with you, then dump him and find someone who is.
2007-02-18 19:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋