i cant stop thinking about my ex now... i saw him last week and he messaged me but i didnt reply... now i keep thinking about him... i wanted to be friends with him again but now i think i want more... he has a g/f but i know he likes me, he told me... i dont want anyone to get hurt. including my b/f and i havent told anyone i have been thinking about him. should i tell him or leave it?
2007-02-18 11:29:51 · 7 answers · asked by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh i should mention that since he and my b/f do the same sport im going to be seeing him heaps this year... any tips for not getting all worked up and that when i see him...
2007-02-18 11:38:51 · update #1
i seriously need as many people as possible to answer this question!!!
2007-02-18 11:40:07 · update #2
i dont think i can talk to him without just saying it... and to make it worse he is a bad person!!! he has tried to brake me and my b/f up so he could have me and said sh!t to brake us up but he said he only did it cause he wanted me...
2007-02-18 11:45:02 · update #3
keep them coming!! i need to know what everyone thinks of this!
2007-02-18 13:57:45 · update #4
i think because you saw him last week your wanting him again but maybe you forgot taht he is an ex for a reason? and sometimes us girls do tend to find it hard to move on as remmeber as they say its does take a lifetime to forget sum1. The main thing here is he has a gf and you have a bf so maybe its better best forgotten?
2007-02-18 11:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing for a while too, except that my ex bf didn't have a new gf (he still doesn't) - he has a crush on this girl he had a crush on before me.
he and i are friends, but we have a weird relationship. there was a really complicated way it started.
i have one class with him at school. i have a friend who sits next to him,, so i used to run to class as fast as i could to talk to him. i usually said things like "how do you get number 12?" or "can i borrow your pen?" also, during lunch i would say "hey" when i saw him around.
i talked to him on instant messaging too - usually, i gave him advice on his crush. one day, we were fighting about who was the better person, and we decided to play a game in which we ask each other questions, and we have to answer honestly. i asked him if he regretted breaking up with me - he said no. but then he asked me why i kicked him in the shin all the time. i told him i missed him. he was like "wow, i didn't know that" and we kinda dropped it there. but at least he knows, and that's all that matters.
tell your ex boyfriend. it may become awkward, but for me and my ex it really didn't.
good luck!
2007-02-18 19:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by jessC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be! For all the right reasons, you need to move on.
I think what one really misses after a break up is the way they felt in that relationship. You felt good/happy making the other person feel special and loved, the response you got from him because of how much you shared of your true inner self. So what you really miss is "The Other You", in that relationship. You have a boyfriend now, so give him a chance to bring you back to life!
2007-02-18 19:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes u, why is he with someone else?
He has a gf and u need to keep your distance, not only that, u have a bf.
This isnt fair to either of them.
If u care for him, then u apparently dont care for your bf. If you dont care for your bf, then u need to break up with him and allow him to find another who will care for him like he cares for her. It isnt fair to him that u r feeling this way about your ex.
After u have broken up with your bf, then tell ur ex how u feel. But, dont be the other woman. Tell him u arent over him and that u still care for him. Let him make the decision to stay or leave his current gf. If he leaves, then the two of you may give it another shot.
Just dont step on her toes, u wouldnt want another woman stepping on yours. And be fair to your bf. Dont make him think u left him for your ex. Its unnecessary grief and u need to respect his feelings.
Good luck.
2007-02-18 19:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are both thinking of each other, there must be some unresolved feelings there. both of you are in relationships however. So, unless you are willing to end that and pursue him (and chance it that he would do the same thing), I would say let it go. Look into your own relationship to see why you feel unfullfilled..otherwise you wouldn't be considering getting back with your ex. good luck!
2007-02-18 19:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave It
2007-02-18 19:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by dawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it.
If he has a girlfriend don't be the "Other Girl"
2007-02-18 19:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋