My girlfriend wanted to talk to me. She said it was very important and after she blew me off this morning I told her just to text me. This is what she sent me…..
"i don't love you. How can i love someone who has made me cry for the past two nights? Who has me in tears right now!! Who ignores me for two days straight? Who screams at me in the car till I'm in tears because they think I'm lying when I wasn't! How can i love you when i am never on your mind? While you are trying to meet other girls behind my back even after being with me for TWO YEARS. How can i love you when all I do is cry? When you don't care one single bit that i cry! I said i needed to talk to you and all you could do was tell me to text you. So I'm writing this HERE IT IS!! I wanted a valentines day with you...considering we couldn't do anything on Wednesday. I went out of my way to buy you gifts I knew you would like and you lie to me tell me you got me stuff when in reality YOU FORGOT! How can you forget about me?? Am I not that important to you? I don’t want to cry anymore over you. I don’t want to cry PERIOD! I just want to be HAPPY!! I got you one more thing for Valentines Day that I did not give you. I wanted to wait till our actual Valentines Day date which was supposed to be tomorrow. But I realize today that Monday is never going to come! So here is my note to you! Yes I’m crying! Yes I’m VERY VERY UPSET right now and yes I just want you to hold me in your arms and tell me everything is going to be ok. But today is the LAST DAY I will EVER cry over you!! Things will be ok with or without you in my life!
I think I REALLY REALLY HURT HER!!
-did I hurt her?? I had no intention of hurting her!! I don’t know what to do now!!
2007-02-18 11:25:45 · 11 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after she said that i said
"I'm sorry i don't know what came over me when I yelled at you I'm a bad boyfriend."
she then text me back replying "that's all you can say huh?"
i said "i have to accept that you don't want me anymore. It's your decision"
she then reply back "No it's not that i don't want you it's that you do not want me and you've made it very clear."
-is it over?
did i really screw this one up??
edit: she called me and I asked her if she would like to talk after work...she said "i don't care" "You decide" i made her decide and she said "fine"....
-is this over for good?-
2007-02-18 11:27:05 · update #1
Edit some more: i saw her after work sat in her car and talked to her. She cried the ENTIRE TIME and told me how i hurt her. I told her the truth i don't REALIZE when I hurt her. It's true sometimes I DON'T!! I told her i didn't know what to do to make it up to her and that i realized tomorrow was supposed to be our "valentines day" but my guy friend was leaving tomorrow. I asked her to come Wednesday and I'd make it up to her. She shook her head said no started crying some more. I didn't know what to do so i said "i guess i should leave."
-is this over for good?-
she gave me one last chance....and i think i blew it....
is it possible i blew it??
2007-02-18 11:27:23 · update #2
If you really care about this girl then be a man and apologize for your retarded actions. If you're lucky she will take you back. If not then it's your tough luck.
2007-02-18 11:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why on earth would you want to be with a guy who wants to be with someone else? This wont end well, I promise you that. But as for the rest of it, if you know who she is and where to find her, then yah, go talk to her. Either she will get mad at you or mad at him, but either way it's out in the open. Fact is, even if he doesn't cheat with her (which it sounds like it was headed that way), he will cheat with someone else. Or he would just dump you when he is sure the other thing is working out. He does not respect you. He knows he gets a lot from you and that's why he is hanging around, but do you seriously mean to tell me you are going to pour forth all that love and effort into someone who doesn't give two sh*ts and a giggle about you? If you are willing to do that, then you need to just back off and let him do what he is doing, since you are making the choice to allow it. Otherwise, realize there is a great, loving, trustworthy guy out there who actually deserves that kind of effort and would give his right nut to have someone like you! Good luck
2016-03-29 01:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you TRULY love her, apologize to her and ask her how you can make it right. And you screwed up by blowing off your valentine's date for your boy. You could have spent a little time with him and then went to your girlfriend. But no, instead you try to reschedule her, which is making her feel unimportant!! Women need to know that we matter to our man. It doesn't require any extravagent gifts, just your time and your undivided attention!! If you cant give her that, then you will blow it. And i don't know how long you've been going thru it with her,but i will give you the same advice someone gave me years ago..."you know its over when you STOP crying. Once you stop crying that means that that person cannot possibly hurt you anymore than they already have." So maybe the fact that she is crying over you, is in a way, a good thing. That may mean that she isn't over you yet. In either case, if you really love her, you will find a way to make it right with her. Good luck dude!!!
2007-02-18 11:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by jewel3977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally ****** up man. So do you still love her ?? do you want her back..If so I can help you man. Contact me I'll help you get her back if you want her back.
First and foremost you'll have to blow off your friend..and if he's a true friend he'll understand.
Second after work show up at her place and tell her how much you love her nad how much u ****** things up...
Buy her flowers , chocolates and a stuffed bear. and go out and by her a expensive ring man.. give her the flowers and chocolates and stuff animal first ..saying ur totally sorry.. then throw them on the floor and say these things are not good enough for you..and pretend to head forthe door.. Turn around get on one knee a pop the question..while showing her the ring...
If you don't want to get a ring get her a diamond neckless or earrings man... This will work....it will get her back.
2007-02-18 11:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only possible it's more than likely probable that you blew it. The only choices you have now are to go your separate ways or to blow off your guy friend, buy her a ring and get engaged tomorrow.
2007-02-18 11:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I would say is that she is really starved for attention. You are going to have to show her that she is a million dollars to you. She wants you to show that you need her, that you want her....DO SOMETHING that will show that....if you really truly care about the relationship....you need to make some moves and fast. She wants to know that you want to talk about it to work it out...don't leave that decision up to her....she is the one who is mad...so you need to be the one to take the steps to fix it. Think of the most amazing thing you can do on your budget or creativity and find something that means sooo much to her, and do it!
2007-02-18 11:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow man dats rough
2007-02-18 11:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u really hurt her i think it is still a chance go get some flowers till she knows u ready do care
2007-02-18 11:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by babyash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're a jerk. let her go so she can find a real guy who would love her, because you obviously don't.
2007-02-18 11:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, yes.
2007-02-18 11:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋