First True Love I love her, she says she still loves me but so confused?

Question

Ok, i know I'm young and she is too. ill start by giving background info.
I'm 17 and a junior in high school she is a freshman and 15, yea may be frond upon. We went out for about 9 months and she broke up with me 3 days ago.
She told me she needed time to think, but she still loves me and wants to be with me. Then I find out she likes my best friend and they were talking behind my back for about 2 weeks. They went out before I went out with her tho, and he broke her heart. So what am I suppose to do, she wants to be best friends and talk about stuff like normal. And I also went over to her house and we talked and kissed and held each other like normal, which confused me so much more. I don't know what to do because I went to my best friend for problems and her, but the problems are about them. What do you guys say is the best thing to do, with both actually?

O yea, and she wants me to try and help her when I can. We talked earlier and when I tried to help she bit my head off, b/c I don't know her. After nine months I have a good idea what she is going to do.

Answer 1

This is so sad. Your best friend can't be your best friend if he goes with your girl. And your girl can't be yours if she's looking elsewhere.

Maybe she just wants to be friends and have some freedom, but it's not right to hurt your feelings like this.

I guess there is not a good way to break up, but there are better ways.

Hang tough. If you are strong enough you could stay friends with both of them, but if your emotions are too strong, you may need to keep your distance from them both.

Tell the girl to make up her mind and you'll respect her decision, even though you are not happy with it. At least that way you'll know for sure what she really means and not be confused.

Answer 2

I say to just let it go... Like try to play it cool and eventuly you will move on... or eventully she will realise that she was wrong. There is nothing much you can do at the moment then to just wait. Surround yourself with fun people and have fun dont dwell over this one girl even though she was your first true love. If it was ment to be she will come back to you if it wasnt then she wont. simple as that. For the mean time tho try to not think about it and play it cool. Eventuly things will sort out on its own, with time.

Answer 3

i've got self assurance you have replied your guy or woman question very nicely. additionally there have been some sturdy solutions given. there is phileo and there is agape as you nicely know. As added pronounced no relationship, clearly speaking begas with the better variety of love(agape) yet with the decrease variety (phileo). yet there are exceptions too this. learn in case you will approximately Issac and his paying for a spouse, a sturdy lesson. As one mentioned very few(incredibly) will ever adventure the better variety and that unhappy for the reality that that's the affection of Christ in us. people who don't have Christ can not have the Godly love. additionally such love isn't constrained to one's companion yet certainly to whom ever the Spirit led love of Christ constraineth us with the objective to do. the better variety is the only love which will or ought to reason us to love each adult men. that's humorous that Phileo is predicated in basic terms on thoughts, likes and dislikes and so on the place as Agape nevertheless the better variety should not be project to such like. because of the fact the scripture states, Love all adult men, or, owe no guy something different than to love him and then to love with the completeness that the "sturdy samatarian" exhibited. No the place is it mentioned we could "like somebody" for God enjoyed us while we've been unlikeable. as that's written we like him because of the fact He first enjoyed us and because He did, and stored us, we are able to do an identical by ability of His grace. Falling out of love is equivalent to falling out of "like", the utmost variety became into ever there. If this occurs to one that announces howdy are stored, i won't decide them yet i'd advantageous have questions approximately their circumstance, yet then all of us make errors while we get in the flesh and not walk in the spirit as we ought continually to do.

Answer 4

you need to talk to her

Hey she is 15 and some of 15 years old girls spend most of the time flirting with guys

Answer 5

Back yourself out of this one. A friend is a friend...you show that you have more respect for yourself when you remove yourself from any love triangles. Don't fight for her, because if she is going back and forth between the two of you, she really isn't worth your time anyway.
I am sure there are plenty of other girls...

Answer 6

firstly,he's not your best friend,he may be someone you know but thats it matey.

best friends rarely evolve maybe one in your lifetime if youre lucky.
generally your best friend is yourself.
try and keep away from them both they sound full of immaturity and nonsence.good luck.

Answer 7

Drop your best friend, because he shouldn't be going behind your back. Really think about what your girlfriend did, and if she is worth it.

Answer 8

have you heard of the book 'she's just not that into you?' check it out. she's using you for smooches I think, and two timing you with your friend. who's not that great a friend I might add. drop her *** and move on, and your friend too.